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    How do you make a girl fall in love with you?

    Never verbally tell her you like her. That's a death sentence.
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    is ballsy necessarily offensive?

    There's some merit to this. A couple of weeks ago, I told a girl who was wearing one of those half shirts showing her mid drift that I liked her shirt and it makes want to take it off her. She said just as long as you promise not to give it back for a while, without batting an eye. We had a...
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    Opening a moving woman

    I find that in order for things to have a chance to go relatively well with a moving woman on her way to do something (other than shopping n sh!t like that) she pretty much has to notice me coming her way. If I get eye contact or if she does that thing where she knows I'm there in her peripheral...
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    Indirect Sexual Attempt

    IMO do and say what you want, but lube her up a little more. Being a teasing and playful guy from the start will lead her to enabling you to say what you want without negative repercussions. Just milk it for a bit before going full psycho serial killer. Sexual tension goes a long way. Granted...
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    Some questions about Instagram game (noob)

    Not to humble brag, but yes. She is very shy and very petite and very feminine, and I am rather masculine so I turn her on beyond her control. She likes to feel small and girly around me so I kill that sh!t. She wants to come over more, but no dice. She would have paid zero attention to me if I...
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    Some questions about Instagram game (noob)

    Ig is for fanboys who get no play. I'm seeing a 21 yr old insta hottie that shows me her DM's and she has never given them the time of day. The thirst is real, and you will just get lost in the masses anyway. I approached her in Target, and she gives me the time of day. I've never once...
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    Why is it so much harder to get matches on bumble or tinder

    I'm not saying to machine gun swipe on all the bottom-feeders, but just be "all-inclusive" while you are looking for whatever you're looking for. Just swipe a buffalo and a she-man here and there. For some reason or another (woke type sh!t) I found that it helps be seen by more of the desirables.
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    Why is it so much harder to get matches on bumble or tinder

    I don't use it anymore, but I used Bumble for a few months two separate times, about 6 months apart. The first time I used it, I got a lot of matches just because I was new. The matches dried up after about 2 weeks. I waited it out, but the matches were few and far between. I only swiped right...
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    She seems to be getting cold and mixed messages

    I learned that people won't give you a reply to your questions on here when there is more than a few lines of text, so maybe condense your paragraphs to suit the squirrels attention spans. Me included. I stopped reading after 4 sentences. Sorry.
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    Co-ed sports leagues seem like a awesome place to meet women

    It sounds good on paper, and you can get lucky, but just be prepared to get stuck on a team with all water buffalos. Good news is you can clean up with these if you so desire. But there's bound to be the one hot one who's "bf" is on the team. You can get her too if you so desire if he's a tool...
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    How to be a Challenge Without Driving Women Away?

    Slight example, but this kind of disagreement is what got the ball rolling for me on my last meetup: Her: I can't stand Aaron Rodgers. Me: I think he is a great QB, I've always thought so. Plus I love he has the balls to stand up for his beliefs instead of caving to the hysterical woke mob. I...
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    What would you do?

    Drop her (for real) and think about why she didn't want to show you her sexy side instead of that other dude. If you had that much in common with her (bad) then you probably played too nice and tried to not challenge her for fear of friction.
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    Business card. Useful?

    Nope. She happily gives you her number, or she's just playing games. Even her demeanor when she gives you her number can be a tell whether you'll hear back from her or not. The card is too old man try-hard IMO. Save that for making money.
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    So many guys (30's and 40') are GD Slobs!

    I have a balding spot (and short buzz cut with a slight fade, no grey yet) and there has been many a time when I have the young ladies kiss it for good luck when we are in a playful mood. They love it. Some make it a point to leave their lipstick print up there to "mark their territory". There...
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    Texting

    Yeah it's hard for "old timers" like us to keep up with the youngins on the texting machine. I find that short snippets of your original thoughts and no rational and ordered communication is necessary. Even complete sentences are hard for them to read all the way through. It is even cause for...
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    Girls have lost the ability to flirt.

    They have too many options to feel the need to flirt. Most just get quiet when it is their turn to give any ground on this. Unless you are famous. I take any involvement in a conversation as flirting nowdays.
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    How to turn this interaction from an interested woman into a more sexual direction?

    Getting sexual over text is a slippery slope. It can go awry very quickly because sometimes the princess can "get offended" and drop the convo altogether because of the social pressure, even though she is as horny as they come. Then you're back at square one. If you do it and she plays along...
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    Why is the answer to girls always “the gym”?

    IMO it is a catch-all phrase to get your blood moving which leads to a healthy body which leads to a healthy mind. Which leads to making healthy decisions which leads to better life results. I see your frustration with the general term, but yes do all those things at home if you want. Oh, and...
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    2 girls in the same class. Ideas on how to proceed?

    Looks like this is a subject that stumps you boys (except @Dr.Rocanlover had something valid to say) like it does me. Never thought I'd see a forum full of "playboys" be so quiet on a subject.
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