Hello Friend,

If this is your first visit to SoSuave, I would advise you to START HERE.

It will be the most efficient use of your time.

And you will learn everything you need to know to become a huge success with women.

Thank you for visiting and have a great day!

Search results

  1. T

    Seriously how are intelligent people supposed to date without turning "abusive?"

    It is posts like this that make me think I cannot rely on this forum for solid advice. Imagine I make a thread asking for an opinion and a guy with this borderline autistic game gives me his advice. And of course, when we ask for advices on a forum we tend to seriously consider every opinion...
  2. T

    What the Red Pill took too far and why I think it is causing most men to struggle in dating

    You are so right. The more I am aiming at healthy relationships, the more I am getting out of the RedPill circlejerk. RP was such an amazing tool when I had to smash girl during college, I did unbelievable (and degenerate) things. None of that was worth it. I attracted incredibly broken (but...
  3. T

    Have toxic work environments ruined anyone else's dating life?

    Funny that you post this OP, I was about to make a new post about the same topic. It must be a sign from the universe hahahah. anyways, let me il tell you something. Right now I’m in a very comfy job that for many reasons I don’t really like. I have more money and live in a better place...
  4. T

    HB9 IG Model trying to friend zone me?

    Yeah man, I tend to feel that she’s not interested and my gut feeling is rarely wrong. However, even if she was, I am pretty sure that dating her would be a massive mistake, I just know it, instinctually. I completely agree with you.
  5. T

    HB9 IG Model trying to friend zone me?

    this is exactly what I was thinking, but wanted a confirmation. Also, suggesting that I bring a friend to that second date? I mean, girls who have high interest would want to be alone with me. do you think that if, after this party I kinda ghost her and start treatingher like ****, would she...
  6. T

    HB9 IG Model trying to friend zone me?

    No my man, I didn’t explain myself well. It was not my idea or plan to extend the date beyond the coffee. We were having fun talking and doing stuff, it just got late and we did not realise that we had spent hours together. My intention initially was to see this girl for a coffee, test the...
  7. T

    HB9 IG Model trying to friend zone me?

    My people, Here’s the situation.. tell me if I acted correct. I met this stunning girl, invited her for a coffee and the coffee turned into a 5 hour date where we went for drinks, to explore the city and finally to have dinner. Kino all day long from me and from her. lots of touching, hugging...
  8. T

    Dating App SOS - Help needed

    I come on this forum sometimes to ask for help regarding situations where I need the input of another group of males that "supposedly" are experienced with women. The more I navigate this forum and the more I understand that the majority of people in here lie about their stories or they need...
  9. T

    Gym and Dinner date

    Met this amazing chick, very interested and we were joking about going to the gym together, cause we are both very into fitness. Then we started talking about me being an amazing cook. So I said, ok let’s go to the gym and then have dinner at yours. She loved the idea and I took her number. The...
  10. T

    30 n-count and 4 relationships later. The one most valuable thing I learned.

    At the dawn of another relationship, I found myself reflecting on the present and the past, analysing where I did well, where I could have done better. After all these experiences, If I had a son now and he asked me an advice regarding women I would tell him this and only this: Love! Love...
  11. T

    I dumped my girlfriend for her bad behaviour. She's seen with someone else 3 days after.

    Thanks Everyone. She is on Tinder now. This confirms even more that I made the right decision. It is hard thought. She is a proper barbie doll with soooo many options, and probably the hottest girl I ever had. In the beginning I thought I should have smashed her until I found another girl...but...
  12. T

    I dumped my girlfriend for her bad behaviour. She's seen with someone else 3 days after.

    Man, it stings. I dumped her because she gave me no other choice, she treated me hot and cold for the past 3 weeks, then she lied about her whereabouts one night. She was supposed to be at a flat party but she lied on who was hosting the party. According to her "I would question her for no...
  13. T

    Just discovered that LTR has been faking orgasms for a year. Can't get over it.

    I used to have great sex with my LTR. I knew how to make her ***, or at least I thought so. After a period of time of her not cuming frequently anymore, I started asking her if there was anything wrong. I applied some pressure on her, she first blamed it on masturbating too much..but I wasn't...
  14. T

    Forcing compliance vs DGAF

    Lately I found myself analysing a situation that arises with a girl I’m dating. Before you ask, we had sex on first date.. never flaked, always down for anything.. never problematic She wants an LTR and I’m down for it in the future..however I like to see my girls submitting to me otherwise I...
  15. T

    I wonder if being a good person is worth it in the end.

    By good I don't mean "nice". I mean trying to "leave them better than you found them" and realising in the end that you got nothing out of it, and maybe you also got played. I have always been a cynical DJ, I have always asked more than I gave, fearful that if I was too kind I would be made a...
Top