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  1. jamesfromhouston

    Thoughts On The Movie "Poor Things"

    Hi gents. Just watched this movie recently. Very interesting movie. I recommend it. Made me think a lot about gender dynamics as well as some RP concepts. Without spoiling it for those who've yet to see it, here are some of my takeaways based on the movie: - Men are the more romantic sex...
  2. jamesfromhouston

    Getting Rejected On First Date Kiss Closes = Move On?

    Hi everyone. One thing I have been reflecting on has been how I've handled kclose rejections. I want to know whether my approach is correct: It's mostly been my personal rule that the first date should always result in at least a kiss close with the girl. The logic for me is simple if the...
  3. jamesfromhouston

    Rules Of Going Out

    Hi gents. I've been reflecting a lot about my own experiences of going out over the past 6 months and honestly, I've had some bad dates and bland outings that feel like a massive waste of time. And I realized as much as the RP community often advocates spinning plates and meeting girls, it...
  4. jamesfromhouston

    Jordan Peterson Claims ONS Corrupts You. Do You Agree?

    https://youtube.com/shorts/DDsmNTvbtf4?si=WLvu3xim5zeKGgS3 In this video Peterson claims men pursuing one night stand are all psychopathic, manipulative and generally corrupt in the negative sense. Even if they aren't they will eventually feel its negative effects with time. What are your...
  5. jamesfromhouston

    Club Game vs OLD 2024: Findings & Questions

    Hey gents. For the past few months, I've been trying club game every week. Here are my findings and some questions below too: I would go to a night club with a social circle that loves to party. We always have VIP tables. There would be girls at the table. At times I'll even invite girl...
  6. jamesfromhouston

    Girl Says She's Not Into FWBs/Casual On First Meet

    Hi gents. Simple question really: Would you guys immediately disqualify/pass on a girl who says she's not into friend with benefits or casual hook-ups on first encounter? There have been a couple of times I've met girls on OLD and during cold approach and they tell me this from the get go. I...
  7. jamesfromhouston

    LMR or Something Else? How Would You Have Proceeded?

    Hello Gents. I was at a nightclub with my friends and bumped hot chick that I previously met at the same club on a different occasion. The whole night, things were golden. Me and the chick were hanging and had a lot of fun dancing and eventually making out. I felt she was all over me in the...
  8. jamesfromhouston

    Hot Girl Demands Good Dinner For Date. Smash Or Pass?

    Hi bros. Back again with another confusing situation. Recently met a girl from OLD. Solid 9. Ukrainian. Asked her out for drinks. She made some comments about how its disappointing our first date wasn't a dinner. Despite that, we made out at the end of the date. She had to go back to sort...
  9. jamesfromhouston

    Weird Situation. What Do You Think?

    Hey bros! About confused about a Christmas girl: I was invited to my best friends Christmas dinner gathering over the weekend. Potluck kind of thing. A bunch of people. Cozy. At dinner, I met this really hot chick from his workplace. Instantly we both were quite touchy from the beginning...
  10. jamesfromhouston

    Rejected Because Of Player Status Despite IOIs?

    Hello gents. I have been puzzled about some recent experiences with girls. Would love your opinion(s)! Recently, I have pursued some girls and gotten more or less the same outcome of rejection despite having IOIs. I'll try summarise some of them to give you an idea: Girl A:- Influencer girl...
  11. jamesfromhouston

    Young Girls & Their Text Games

    Hi gents. I've noticed in my recent and past dating experience that younger girls (18 - 25) tend to play a lot of games on text messaging. I felt prompted to start this thread because recently there have been some bros that wrote about their frustrations of girls not texting consistently or...
  12. jamesfromhouston

    Plate-Life Balance?

    Hello gents. The general message in the manosphere is to chase excellence and also spin plates to make us more rational with women. It is often said that working on yourself comes before women (plates). But of course, real life isn't so black and white. Self-improvement such as career...
  13. jamesfromhouston

    Best Break Up Advice You Wish You Knew

    Hello brothers, Feeling down and would like some support and thoughts. Some Context Recently a main I had been nested up with in a 7 months LTR dumped me because I fooled around with another chick at a party on a drunken night. (I'm a DJ so at most times I'm at parties and that night...
  14. jamesfromhouston

    Some thoughts needed. Help appreciated!

    Howdy bros. In a predicament at the moment. Would appreciate the thoughts my fellow DJs. I got into a relationship with my gf, who I met from a friend's party about 7 months ago. A month into our relationship, another girl from the party group started to flirt with me because we always bumped...
  15. jamesfromhouston

    Gf not sharing pictures of you on social media

    Hey gents. In this social media age: I wonder if you guys would consider it a red flag if a girl you were seriously dating (in a relationship with) would post pics of her friends and her life but refrained from sharing pictures of you (or you two together). At times even deliberate, e.g. if...
  16. jamesfromhouston

    Epiphanies about the 'oneitis' phenomenon

    Hey gents. Had this great epiphany on Monday night when I was just done f'cking a plate of mine that I had been quickly developing oneitis for. As we laid there in her bed, I was experiencing serious post-nut clarity. I mean I had just f'cked her and I've been really wanting to f'ck her badly...
  17. jamesfromhouston

    How do you deal with a woman who spin plates?

    Hey brothers. We always talk about spinning plates. It gives us the leverage, composure and necessary attitude to survive and thrive in today's dating market. But what about a reverse situation, where you encounter a girl who is (naturally/intentionally) spinning lots of plates? I've met a...
  18. jamesfromhouston

    Some Recent Insights On Interest Level & The Pull-Back

    Maybe this is nothing new but I thought I'd share for the sake of other future members who might find themselves in the same situation. Recently been dating a girl that I met at a music fest who was initially confusing me. Always when we meet, we would f'ck and have fun. She would always be...
  19. jamesfromhouston

    Is (Girl/Group) Gossip About You A Bad Thing?

    Hey everybody. This question has been asked on SS in 2005, with barely any replies and discussion; so I thought we could tackle it again; might make a great contribution for the forums. Is gossip about you being a player/ladies man a bad thing? This is something I have been thinking about...
  20. jamesfromhouston

    What's Her Interest Level? Confused.

    Hey bros. Would like to know the IL of this girl I recently met: - Met a Tinder date at a Starbucks for some night coffee recently. We make out during the date. - We have a good time. Tons of laughs. She invites me to her friends birthday party on the same night. We bounce off together. - We...
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