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Quality share. Do you believe the success is in “speaking the language” to relate with the feminine energy? Or leaning into the natural masculine to attract and polarize? For example, I’ve noticed when women complain or express their feelings, I have a lot more success in just listening and...

For OP, she obviously had interest or she wouldn’t have stuck around for that long of an interaction. It was your job to realize it and end it earlier to leave on a high note. You then robbed her of the chance to chase you like she wanted. If you had done this and stayed silent until she...

I’ll agree you let the interaction drag out too long and also she said she would look you up and you challenged her to do so with the bet - but you didn’t stay congruent to that by texting her right away the next day. Should’ve let it ride because that comes off too eager. She wanted the...

@BackInTheGame78 is right here. This seems like the juice is not worth the squeeze. Is she the only girl in your area? Find more and go on dates with them

“Social doses” of psychedelics are helpful for having a good time with women when at concerts, festivals, nights out. It’s enough for to loosen up and feel it, connect on a higher level, but not be so messed up you can’t function. Having some and sharing it with women also helps with...

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Do you remember something that has possibly worked in the past? Sometimes when you’re stuck in a rut you have to shake things up. Change the routine. Last year for me it was going on a solo trip to another country for 2+ weeks. Just getting more in the present moment, meeting new people (and...

They’re attention addicts. If they told you they have a boyfriend they’d miss out on a couple more hits of the drug and also not be able to add you to their “options” list.

You should’ve just left it at your first message and then went about your life (including other women) until she reached out. No need to join her in her own emotional rollercoaster. Your silence after the first message would’ve said what you were trying to say with all the follow up messages.

I too am trying to avoid porn and j*erking off and have a couple questions, but first. Is 5 weeks a reasonable dry spell if you’re only saving it for real s*x? Without regular plates but still actively “dating”/trying to get laid, how often are we all getting new women? I’m pretty darn busy...

@SargeMaximus I thought you said it was 3 days previously. If this is your straight up exclusive LTR for 5 months, maybe, but even then… Just make sure you plan for space and time away for this month you’re staying with her. Even if she doesn’t want it. Do stuff on your own and make sure you...

That’s a good way to kill the relationship. I recently tried visiting a girl I met while she was on vacation in my town. We f***ed the whole time right when we met and then when I went and stayed with her for a week (logistics of my trip it worked out that way). I lasted 2 days before she got on...

Yeah, by her

If she got her dog right after her last breakup, it’s not a child, it’s filling an emotional void. Then, they become so dependent on the dog that by the time they meet the next dude (you) everything else is beneath the pet. I was staying with a chick for the weekend a few weeks ago and I left...

@Barrister is right though, one shouldn’t look backwards with regret, or backwards much at all. Yet, it’s good to have a little self awareness and reflection. There absolutely was something to why I was looking elsewhere. I was unhappy in a “boring” relationship and wanted to spend another 5...

Yes. I left a 3 yr LTR because I was blinded by new shiny objects and started a 3 year run that turned out to be all damaged women. Cheated on her and left to chase hotter, but toxic, situations and years later find myself wondering what it’d be like if I didn’t. She eventually found a new man...

It’s best to always be the “other guy” with damaged women. Never try to LTR one. I’ve done both. You never want to be the BF unless you’re just as ****ed up as her.

This is kind of what I’ve figured out. No so much in treating them like gatekeepers or putting them on a pedestal, but they crave the strongest male frame you can think of - unrealistic for most men - and want you to treat them like a princess, daughter, sex slave, etc all at once. The more...

This. And the playful conversation on the way back to the train was her feeling relief after she didn’t know how she was going to (nicely) end it with you.

I said it before when there was a daddy issues thread a couple months ago lol…the 2 most extreme cases of cluster b run-ins I had were girls whose mothers did the abandoning in childhood. And both of their fathers were Peter-pan like narcissists - but still in their life.