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    A considerable portion of your rejections can be due to women being awkward/socially inept

    This is an extreme outlier, and IMHO if you are worrying about something like this it's just an excuse/cope and high inhibition rejection of yourself.
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    My boss at my new job is pretty hot, is it possible for a younger man to seduce an older woman?

    Of course it's possible. In my experience, they will seduce you, though.
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    People Aren't using Tinder to Date or Hookup

    Not addicted to it, but as a man I admit it makes me feel good when strange women "like" and message me on apps and social media. So, while I don't agree with it as something to spend time on, I understand it.
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    My biggest question about Hypergamy

    Short answer: Because they can. Longer answer: If you are a musician/athlete or touring celebrity of some type, it's good to have a reliable 6 or 7 in just about every major city or place you regularly hit up. If you're there you're already working and after the show or at the hotel after the...
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    A Warning to Men Who Don't Understand Their Value

    Depends. I've turned down plenty of "hot" women because I could see it wasn't worth it. made a couple mistakes like OP (passed at first but something made me give her a chance), though.
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    Longest amount of time it took you to fvck her?

    3 weeks (3 dates, we only had 1 mutual night off per week) because I didn't know any better at the time and she pretty much got tired of waiting for me to make a move. Since then it's pretty much been very soon or not at all. At least for me, I know if it's not escalating pretty quickly it's...
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    What do you think men should do to avoid the problem that baseball player Trevor Bauer has got himself caught up with?

    Avoid women who seem fun but are obviously bat-s crazy. Nothing again rough stuff or "kink" but as these allegations come out (and I've read a lot of metoo type stuff with s-workers and the fetlife types), I can't help but thinking every single woman I've ever heard express interest in this is...
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    Do you think that slender-man/fat-chick couples are now normative?

    She looks OK in the one pic from behind in the illusion jeans, but she's rough for 28 even in the US. She's comparable to the average 40something who messages me on dating sites.
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    We Are On Verge of Complete Dating Collapse

    It's rare, but there are still women who are much better than those 3s or 4s who don't behave the same way. Women's preferences (what they do, not what they say) aren't logical and don't make much sense to us men. So it's easy for us to think (and have our egos destroyed) "this psycho 4/10...
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    Wall-approaching chick: 'time to start dressing slutty now that I'm old'

    He's married and divorced the same woman twice, simped for Amber Heard, and so on. Not a guy to look up to as far as dating strategy.
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    Height and Women Know What They Want

    Women probably know what they want but I wonder how accurate their perception of measurements are. Most men lie, too. Just one data point. I've been going by 6' my entire adult life. Almost every man who claims 6' is shorter, some by a good 2 inches. I get a lot of other men trying to boost me...
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    You can't win if you don't play...

    You "win" some games by refusing to play.
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    YouTuber John Anthony Lifestyle claims to have slept with 1,300+ women! Who thinks he is legit?

    I thought he was a weird selection to be "President" ADJ's VP/sidekick. Together they look like Beavis and Butthead. I have no dog in the "manosphere" fight but ADJ was the least charismatic of the bunch, and his talent was putting together a lineup of guys relevant to the space. JA is some...
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    A colleague has been bringing food to me at work

    She's bring you food at work, you want to enter her home. Maybe you should think like a woman a little bit in this case, to have some perspective about why you are jumping to good conclusions when it favors you but not understanding why when it doesn't.
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    A colleague has been bringing food to me at work

    Women bring me food all the time and I don't read anything into it. I think it's different bringing food to work versus stopping by her house. Sure, you can take apart her logic and "win" this argument but you are thinking too much.
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    The divorced woman on a rebound?

    I've had plenty of women offer me their guest room, their room, even their house, before we ever met.
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    Cologne on Dates

    I'm not a regular user of cologne, but it's never done anything for me. My natural smell has. I saw a post mention scent being the most important sense. OK, I would think my natural scent is the most important thing, not a mask a million other guys wear. I've read good comments here that say...
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    Girl's height perception

    Same here. And I'm technically not even 6 feet myself. I think I started shrinking and/or it was because I'd been on my feet almost 24 hours but I went to the doctor recently and got an official 5'11 3/4. I think that's close enough for me to keep saying I'm 6' exactly, but let me tell you EVERY...
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    Women simp for high value males

    He has at least 2 "Loyalty Test" videos where he DMs the GFs of his followers on request. Results were about what I expected but I think some guys would be surprised.
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    Unusually attractive guy in college from a couple years ago, and girls' reactions

    Are you speaking from personal experience, and how extreme size-wise are we talking? I'm just curious because I'm easily in the top 5% or so in one dimension and well-above average in the other based on most reputable available statistics. According to some online analysis of porn, I'd be...
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