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Actually I was fooled by this a couple of times when I first started with online dating lol. It's getting worse as photoshopping is getting easier. It's simple to spot fat girls who are trying to hide it, but a few months ago I got stung by a girl with bad skin (spots etc) who'd skillfully...

Nowadays when I game and pull, chodes will attribute it to me being 'good looking', yet I was also 'good looking' at 23 when I hadn't been laid for 6 years. Go figure.

Not the sort of women you probably want. Of course, it's probably not gonna hurt you unless you brag about it. But a car won't do sh*t for your game on its own.

Great post, thank you. I think building your SMV and lifestyle is so important nowadays because of how the dating market has evolved. Unless you're extremely good looking dating apps are a slog: it takes a ton of effort just to meet a bunch of 6s and 7s. Same with cold approach: it can be a lot...

There's definitely a wider cultural push to shame men for dating younger women. Seems to have ramped up lately: see the 'age appropriate' discourse propagated online by SJW women, older feminists and 'white nights'. Pretty wild that even you're getting it at aged 24: I'm 38 and the last couple...

I couldn't properly date a woman who smoked. It would get on my nerves and, worse, I'd end up smoking when drunk or whatever on account of being around it. I couldn't care less for a hookup, though. I've found that girls who smoke are often more down for hooking up on the first night. I also...

Yep. Got the AstraZeneca in Feb. Second shot next week. Mild fever which went with a couple of paracetamols. Better than getting Covid.

I've only been on this forum since last year but have been in and out of the community since 2005. Dropped out between 2012 and 2018 as was in a relationship. Got super-active again as soon as I came out of that. The game is very different now in many ways, though I've aged pretty well, am...

Dude, this may be the pandemic and lockdowns. Not sure where you're based, but here in the UK there have been tons of articles about people feeling like this during the past 12 months (first one is actually a US publication)...

Nah RSD helped a lot of guys. Disclaimer: I worked for RSD as a Vegas Immersion Coach and helped run bootcamps with some of the instructors, so I am biased. But they were pioneers in terms of shifting the community from pick-up lines to the idea of identity-level change. We had guys come on the...

This is good advice. I’d just add two things. First, learn to revel in stepping outside of social norms: cultivate a rebellious, oppositional streak. Don’t go full conspiracist or anything like that. But recognise that most people are rigidly conforming to what they believe they are supposed to...

I've found this happens if I'm not in the moment during sex (I have adhd so this has been a problem in the past). Can also happen if you're really into a woman: sometimes dudes get performance anxiety where they can't get it up, and that manifests again once they can get it up when they can't...

Looks matter way more with online dating. I know it's difficult at the moment with Covid, but I would urge you to do more irl dating: consider demographics and start going to social events where you will have some inherent status if possible. A female friend of mine who went on hundreds of...

For sure. The way Tyler used to go on rants about looks being irrelevant was definitely disingenuous. Looks obviously do matter to a point. But I do get where he was coming from: what's the point of dwelling on it? Improve what you can - gym, nutrition, grooming - and move on. All the guys who...

I just turned 38 and last year I hooked up with 29 (I think) new girls, ages ranging from 20 to 37. Average age was about 25. A few sixes, lots of 7s and 8s and a few 9s. My game is good (I worked as a coach for RSD in the past). And genetics has something to do with it (I get told I look early...

Oh yeah that's fine, it's just freezing so I'm focusing on work until the new year as I have no intention of walking around in the freezing cold.

The gap between high smv men and the rest is only going to widen further. Simping online seems to have gotten worse during the pandemic as evidenced by the huge growth of OnlyFans. I've noticed it too on platforms like twitter where even female '6's I know now get a ton of thirsty men hanging on...

With respect dude and I appreciate you're trying to be helpful but I used to coach for RSD I know how to talk to women lol. Im referring to the fact we're in lockdown here in the UK so it's very hard to meet up sometimes and I have better things to do than to keep girls warm on apps for months.

I've found that conversations fizzle out a lot more atm as it's harder to get the girl out quickly. So previously I would hit up a bunch of matches at the same time, play the numbers game, and aim to get a couple out each week for dates. Moving them through the funnel quickly precisely because...

If you have other options on the go why would you care enough to "fire back with a vengeance"? I've literally hit up other women to come out after a date has flaked and have genuinely forgotten about the flake within a couple of hours. The most I'd say you should bother doing is, if your flake...