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    LTR - Sex **** test question

    Update: She caught me DMing some chick on insta and freaked out. It’s over and I really feels it’s for the the best. I knew deep down it was not right but my ego got the better of me. Appreciate all you guys input! Will read up on the iron rules.
  2. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    To her? I was not aiming to gain anything in partical tbh except for her to understand why my behavior has been of base lately and that I've identified the problem and am doing something about it. I mean she has not told me that I'm acting wierd but she sure has noticed. And I think it's a...
  3. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    True and I might regret in again, we'll see.
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    LTR - Sex **** test question

    We are still having sex every time we hang out although she has been offering up some halfassed resistance which I have taken as a sign of declined interest as well as a **** test / frame test and handled as such. Regarding the declining attraction that is my fault for giving her too much of my...
  5. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    Kind of agree here. Never been fully denied, just had some resistance which I have pushed trough. Feels wierd but like you are alluding to, not acceptable to be denied sex.
  6. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    Thanks. Well in short, because she's not hot enough and extremly emotionally immature. Constant gaslighting because of her insecurities. This type of behaviour has been turning me off alot in the past, still does.
  7. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    Thanks for sharing.
  8. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    I was going to before we went to spend new years. Now I feel different. god I really sound like a guy who’s coping.
  9. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    Would you mind giving some examplesof what you changed and how she responded? How did you put her in her place?
  10. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    Talking about these different skill sets. What would be your approach in this scenario as opposed to what Sparta suggested?
  11. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    I’ll try this out and keep you updated. Thanks for taking the time write an elaborate answer!
  12. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    Well put, agree. So apart from nexting this person, what are your five cents on how to go about rectifying this situation? Pulling back on the sex part, dread game, keeping frame, i.e. not agreeing to make peace or silly demands and being generally attractive?
  13. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    On point with the attachment style.
  14. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    Really well put, this has been my mental model until the last couple of weeks. At first I allowed myself to make mistakes because I thought I have some leeway because the nature of the power position I've had in the relationship. After that I have due to some severe life stress somewhat lost...
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    LTR - Sex **** test question

    Thank you. I get your point of objectifying and not feeling appreciated. Those things are ofcourse nessecary in a LTR. I may be of base here but my two cents about women and relationships is that respect and attraction are at the top of the list. Lose these two and whatever you do wont really...
  16. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    Sure, most likely. Since like I said in the original post, I have been messing up for a couple of weeks. Forgot to mention in the original post. We both though she got pregnant at new years. Scare is now over, confirmed not preg, but this may play a part in testing or am I just coping?
  17. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    What do you mean by this?
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    LTR - Sex **** test question

    This was my thought process. Focus on being attractive, keep frame (i.e. not submit to concede more power to silly demands) and have her work for my validation and not the other way around. Not pushing for sex and like you said. And dread game, there has been plenty of that, not actively but...
  19. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    I can but not someone I would consider for something long term. Also I'm one of those tin foils that wont date vaxxed ppl.
  20. R

    LTR - Sex **** test question

    This post hits home. I have acted weak AF and am abit ashamed for it. Going for sex even tho I didn't even want it because I didnt want to be denied.
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