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A while back, several guys from Rochester started a PUA lair. It has now expanded to cover Buffalo, Syracuse, and Ithaca as well. There are currently over 20 active wings in these areas (mostly in Rochester, but we now have a few guys from Syracuse and Ithaca as well). In case you're from any of...

I seem to be on a streak where I get the girl at the bar to like me, get her girlfriend to like me (with the help of a wing), start making out with a target by the end, yet when I offer the target and her friend to go somewhere else (aka my place :P), the target says that she is completely fine...

Recently I've started seeing a girl, everything was going fine except now I feel like she might be cooling down to me. But that's not what I'm asking about, I kinda ****ed up a little and I think I know where. The real problem is that I think I'm attracted to her but I wonder if I actually...

During the school year I used to go to Syracuse University, and there were plenty of parties. Now it's summer and I'm stuck at Syracuse because of an internship, the only problem is all of the bars I know of are either 21+ or gay. Right before the end of the year I got bored with my GF and broke...

I noticed that although height is not such a big deal for girls, it does matter for them how tall the guy is and apparently somewhat more than for us. I'm 5'9", maybe 5'10", about average, currently 19. However, my father is 6'3" and I feel like I got cheated out of those 5 inches. I...

So I started seeing this girl. Everything is fine, she feels comfortbale with me and my friends, when I start making out with her she keeps excited for hours, starts breathing heavily, everything. The only problem is, the cliched "I want to take it slow" when I try to have sex with her. We've...

I'm really confused about this girl, she shows strong signs of interest and yet seems scared. First of all, for those of you who want to know how I met her (2 weeks ago) read this thread: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=67503 So basically what happened afterwards...

I came over to the girl whose room number I got last week. Talked to her a bit, found out that English was her specialty so I told her I would get her to check my essays. Then after some talking, I told her to play pool with me and my friends, she said she had to study for a test at first, but...

Went to a party with my friends today, it wasn't as good as frat parties, but it was the only party today so we're lucky we got there. It was in the basement of some house. They charged $3 for entrance too. At first I didn't know wtf to do so I just stood near the wall, with a friend next to me...

I can't start a conversation that lasts. And sometimes I just don't know how to fit in what I want to ask a girl in a conversation. I'm sure my smile and eye contact are fine, because many girls (3 or 5 just today, actually) say hi to me first and/or smile when I make eye contact. the problem...

This is not the first time this happens but today it really pissed me off. Basicly today our elevators (in my dorm on campus) work retardedly and if you call them up from downstairs they come up but the door never opens. So I casually walk up to them seeing 4 girls standing there cursing at the...

by R3N3G4D3 and tactic: Lately there are more and more "tips" on SoSuave based on the concept that the ultimate goal of being a DJ is to get laid. The bible never states nor suggests that women are the key to happiness, and they're not. Nonetheless, it's obvious that at least 2/3 of the...

Guys started asking girls to the prom in our school last week or so. I asked two HB9s but they already got dates. There is a girl who's a 7 and is in 11th grade who definatelly likes me (We started talking two weeks ago, since then she found out where I hang out before school and now goes there...

For as long as I can remember, I had a problem with sweaty palms. However, now that I communicate with people a lot more than before, others strarted noticing it too, and have already made a few comments to me about it. I tried using baby powder on my hands, but my sweat washes all of it off in...

I have this evening class in BU, and I take the bus there. Anyway, today there was this cute chick sitting across from me on the bus. I glanced at her a few times and after that she glanced at me a few times, but I just couldn't figure out how to approach her. How do I strike up a conversation...

I'm not much of a party guy so it'd hard for me to start fitting in quickly into groups of people I haven't met before. Today I happened to be in that situation and observed some things about myself and groups of girls, but now I need some advices. Basicly this is a field report (and not a very...

Many people have trouble being confident around women especially in the beginning of the DJ career. I myself am one of those people. However, like some already said, there are different types of confidence, you might be confident in your math skills but feel really insecure around women. This...

Some of you mgiht remember how I wanted to ask a girl I really liked out about 2 weeks ago. Well, after reading the bible (which is extremely useful) I asked her. Wasn't the best moment or way of asking out but it wasn't the worst one either. Basicly I saw her going into the library as I was...

There is this girl that I liked for a long time now (since 9th grade, and we're in 12th now), and although we talk and we could be considered friends we aren't very close. Everytime I try to talk to her it comes out to be about school, and we don't talk every day either. Tomorrow I want to ask...