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Bingo.

This is a much deeper problem. You've mentioned that this isn't the first time you have been like this over someone. There is a root cause for this and you have to find out exactly why you are like this and where it started. It usually stems from childhood. It's a psychological problem. Your...

You're going fatal dude. This is very painful to watch. Next step may be to seek professional help.

Listen, it's hard to let it go and stay silent when you feel embarrassment and shame, but the more the reach out the more you're going to feel this way. Trust me I know where you are, youre gonna try and say things to get some respect and/or reasoning back. I know you long for a text back or an...

Also, it's not that I don't want to reach out and convince her to bang and leave on my own terms. Even if she agreed, I realized due to current circumstances, seeing her with all the anxiety and the anger, the emotions. I wouldn't even be able to give either of us a proper lay, even if I could I...

Yo Ricboy, just checking in. You are still prolonging your own pain. I know when I signed up on here I was going through the same sht as you around the same time so I feel for you. My oneitis' bday was on May 7th. It took everything not to msg her. I finally heard from her from a new number...

I find most people on here has not been red pilled properly yet. This is iffy. I feel for you, esp with your reputation amongst your family and peers. Not to say it in a harsh way, you are the Beta (not your fault, we've been conditioned this way since pre pubescent years) that she settled...

I am looking forward to this day. I really am.

I would still go with Metalwaters opinion. Be indifferent mostly. Be an ass if need be. She has not earned your flirtations.

That's so funny, I plan to do exactly that when I hear from her again. But she has to initiate it first. For me right now now it has to be 3 attempts exactly to get a hold of me. Not one, not two. By the third I'm just gonna reply to her to go 'get a hotel room and wait for me there'. In which...

I missed this post entirely. I'm there now as well. I know what Ricboy is going through. You hit it on the head. I, through self awareness realizes that even if she came back, and I had her the way that I wanted, it would probably last two weeks before I re-enter a world of hell again. The her...

Like everyone says, it's an iffy one. Disrespects only escalates. If you start to hang out with her more, then she REALLY does fck someone else's because well "I thought you didn't mind" Also, with this shyt comes the verbal bullshyt and then next you know everything little thing you say she...

Pretty much.

Here's the part I find difficulty with. Most of my life, I find the ones that you're really into, it's hard to keep that "yeah it's all good" clearly she is just a plate, I have passed jealousy sht tests with flying colors when I am indifferent. But I am indifferent because let's face it, she's...

Relatable. Tomorrow would be 2 months no contact. I still think about her daily. Thoughts interrupt me even during my workout... thinking about how there's nothing to do during Quarantine and she's barebacking this new guy day and night.

With or without contact all these years?

Dude I didn't realize how bad it actually was until i wrote it out just now fck.

Here's the list of mistakes I made prior to reading the work of Rollo Tomassi. - Initiated contact more than I should've. I've always chased with reasonable success rate. Woman do like it to a certain extent. but with this one I found myself doing the most even she wasn't reciprocating. She...

Ricboi You're Jon Favreau in this. We're Ron Livingston.

Perfectly broken down.