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    Side b*tch game.. for the experienced, accomplished men ..

    Brilliant post. 100% agree.
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    I find myself in a situation (MARRIED!)

    I don't want to come across like Jordan Peterson "negotiate with your woman" but there's some truth to it. You're not the authority in every situation just because you're a man. For example, was at a restaurant recently and my gf said "can you not text your friends while we have dinner?" I...
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    Sex with another woman while girlfriend watches?

    Don't agree they are separate, I think being aware is 80/90% of the journey. Once you're aware it's easy - and natural - to assert dominance.
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    Need help: Female just leaves the chat in middle and never gets back

    The approach I take is only use text messages for logistics - "let's meet at x at 8pm" - and nothing else. Trying to build rapport via text is passing the buck - get her out and build it face to face.
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    Sex with another woman while girlfriend watches?

    I had to Google BDE. What a great acronym:D. Agree with the above answers. Except I don't think the LTR is doomed. I'm guessing you value it more than she does. I also see you're a new member. Assuming you just discovered the red pill and women's nature, your behaviour previous to this may...
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    Man I'm really a sucker for a hot chick. Played the HELL out of myself today

    I've had the exact same thing as happened the OP happen to me. But I don't think these women share these stories with their friends. Their need for validation from men is so great they're too embarrassed to even tell their friends. Instead, they continue doing these things surreptitiously, with...
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    Internal neediness check...could be helpful to see what women view as needy

    I cringed hard reading that. I've been in a relationship where I did all 7 (pre-SS). Amazing she put up with me as long as she did.
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    The real reason women love to travel (among the many things)

    When I go away on stags with my married friends, about 75% of them cheat every time. Works both ways.
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    It happens to all of us.......

    It's not that irrational not is it gender specific. The opposite to love is indifference not hate. Hence, if she's talking about the ex she's NOT indifferent and that's gonna be a problem.
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    Still legitimately wondering about this...

    Principles and how good men have them is talked about a lot here. If you want to stay monogamous - and you should if having children as I intend - add it to your list of Principles. It should be at the top. Covid has helped me massively. The no. 1 factor with cheating is putting yourself in...
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    Still legitimately wondering about this...

    I hit this issue in an LTR every single time. Usually about the 5 month mark. Men are programmed this way. Those who say they are satisfied with one woman are lying to themselves. It's struck me as odd on this site how guys come on complaining about women cheating when I look at reality around...
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    video: The Surprising Psychology Of OnlyFans Simps

    I think it's different and it's the first time the monetization of the explosion in simping and thirst has gone main stream. OnlyFans is now covered in mainstream media, and you see it actually being defended. Imagine YouPorn being defended in the MSM. OnlyFans has nearly 100,000 British...
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    Will you take the covid vaccine?

    Ya i wondered was it intentional too.
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    Will you take the covid vaccine?

    It's incredible yeah. Prescient. I know a guy who got the vaccine and complained he had no energy ever since and I always said "all in your head mate". Then I read that. Now I believe him.
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    Will you take the covid vaccine?

    It is a good way to call the bluff of the many people politicising the vaccine just like they politicised covid - the "your a conspiracy theorist Nazi if you doubt the safety of the vaccine" types. First tell them the story of the mass hysteria around the swine flu pandemic 2009, the rushed...
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    Thoughts on gf who did it all backwards

    Yes, it's such a common story. It's as if who the father is doesn't matter. Or more likely, they've left it so late and therefore have to cut the time used for vetting process by 90%. Which is insane given the importance of the decision. Those points you mention about judging a person's...
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    Thoughts on gf who did it all backwards

    Thanks @BeExcellent for your perspective, my responses in bold.
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    Will you take the covid vaccine?

    The average age of death from covid where I'm from is 88 - higher than the average age of death. Those dying have on average 3 underlying conditions. 95% of those who have died were not admitted to ICU - this is because they are too frail. In short, it's the extremely vulnerable people who are...
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    Thoughts on gf who did it all backwards

    Risk/reward a nice way of looking at it. Yeah I'll be fine, it's her I'm worried about. She's going to be absolutely crushed. But she has very solid friends and family nearby so at least she has good support.
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