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I removed her as a Facebook friend. Ubfollowed her on Instagram. She still follows me. I still have her on WhatsApp but will not message her. Nor will I respond unless she begs and even then still probably not. Her message said she still has feelings for me but the distance was too much...

Things I have learned: Availability will kill desire. Their words don't mean ****, their actions do. They don't know what they want or how they want to be treated. Put them on a pedestal and they will see you as a peasant. Don't tell them how you feel make them earn it. You have to be the...

I have learned the hard way man. I will not be burned like this again.

Thank you so much for that perspective brother. I really appreciate it. This hurts emotionally but intellectually I know she was gonna torment me if we continued. Making me jealous. Making me feel of low value. I'm just glad that in the end I managed to hold onto my self respect. I never...

She ended it with me first. By text and blamed the current virus which I found funny. She also said she still feels the same and cares about me a lot. I simply said : I saw this coming. Goodbye Kate :) I will now initiate the no contact protocol. She is gone off social media and I will...

Flirting with her. Asking her out. Basically active orbiters. I get the feeling she is entertaining their advances. At least she has eluded to that. One of her statement when we hadn't talked for a while "when me and you don't talk it doesn't mean I stop talking to the whole world" That...

Just a few months. She sent me a voice recording of her friend talking about all of the guys trying it on since she posted a picture of us online. I ignored it. She said she has a particular guy trying it on with her all the time and never confirmed she has shut it down. My head is fried at...

Spinning this thread back up. The games have begun again. She is playing it cold and going on two weeks now. When I go cold back, mirroring her she calls me out and starts trying to argue. She consistently tries to make me jealous by hinting at "her snapchat followers", "guys in her dm's". I...

I completely agree. I'm looking at it this way. It's eaither a success and I become the one evaluating her, I become the prize. Or I am burned and learn some valuable lessons. Not to go to blue pill on you but I do have some feelings for this girl. She has some red flags for sure. Ill be...

Uh I was certainly partly to blame. Always available via text and to hang out. Overly emotive, needy also. I feel this debacle has reset things and i will move forward more aware. My girl said this made her realise a couple things. We will see if her actions support that statement as i...

Took your advice guys, said no to going out to her and her friend. Instead she came out to me just us. Things were quite normal which I didnt expect. She explained her point of view and how she thought I was not in the mood to talk based on my initial reply. Maybe you are right @Danger that I...

Update 2. She has said she will be going out tonight with her friends, that they would like to meet me and she would like to see me. Im just so confused.

I was literally just saying good morning, there was no hidden agenda. Last night she said "thank you for the message ill text you later". Still radio silence other then looking at my Instagram stories. Maybe that confirms a game was being played. Im starting to look forward to this ending at...

I think there is an element of truth that she felt I was being unresponsive. She obviously didn't like feeling that lack of control my short response made her feel and tried to have me chase. This did not work and she is upset. The sadness she feels may be genuine but my interpretation when...

Update. She rang me immediately and was quite upset. I stuck to the script and she began to get very upset. I told her I was giving her space and was confused as to why she never replied. I also told her my reasoning, that we had recently escalated emotionally and that I felt this was why she...

Ok ill do it. Thank you for your advice so far.

We have a joke i could send her. There was a night when she was feeling off and sent me an owl emoji in response to a nessage, Then didnt text me. She apologised the next day and told me to call her out. Id send the owl sometimes to be funny so thats a candidate. Ill wait till tomorrow...

I will trust your judgement. There is nothing i would love more than to attempt to fix this by messaging her. But this, now, is how i should have played it from the start.

Im honestly just struggling with the fact that while Im not chasing one of her orbiters is getting a shot or she is gonna **** someone else. I have the wrong attitude and I just shouldnt care, I know that intellectually but not emotionally.

Right now I am in the hurt phase. Which I will ensure against going forward by seeing myself as the prize and not going exclusive. Honestly I am hurt way more than I should be. there are definitely some issues I need to address.