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    Situation with this new girl got awkward

    I have definitely misinterpreted things in many occasions here. Though I am not sure she never had any interest whatsoever. I might never know for sure, but this is based on the feel I've got from our interactions. At this point it doesn't matter much. As to what I am upset about, that night at...
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    Situation with this new girl got awkward

    I think so too brother. Originally I didn't consider making a move as she was from work etc, but it was later when we started vibing that i got interested. By which time all these things happened. Avoiding contact with her for a while has definitely helped me see things more clearly. At this...
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    Situation with this new girl got awkward

    I had to google the meaning of this word, but you are not wrong, I partly was... Obviously I don't enjoy any of this, and this is not the case any more.
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    Situation with this new girl got awkward

    No way man, not in the mood for catching anything!
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    Situation with this new girl got awkward

    Thanks bro, you are right, I usually try to avoid getting into these types of situations, but this time I fell for it. Maybe because I was new to this city so didn't have much abundance when I met her. Or maybe I just got carried away. Anyway, lesson learned for next time.
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    Situation with this new girl got awkward

    Two months ago I moved to a new city to start a new job. I started going out with a group of co-workers of similar age, including this girl that I'm writing about. She is cute but not particularly hot (~7-7.5/10) but is clearly my type and we come from similar cultural backgrounds, so it was...
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    Update: After a week of complete radio silence from both sides, I texted her again today. Did not really expect her to respond tbh, but she did and seems open again. I might have another shot after all
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    I feel you man, I've had cases of oneitis multiple times over the years, especially when I was younger. One of them was pretty bad. Luckily these taught me to be careful. Hope you are over it now!
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    This is actually exactly the reason! Jake, don't worry man, I'm not catching feelings for this girl. We only interacted for 12 hours (that might have been enough when I was 20, but not now). But I do admit that failing to close hurt my ego a bit, and I want another chance. Plus I want to break...
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    No, I was thinking along the lines of what Billtx49 wrote above, that 2 days would be too early/too eager. But who really knows..? And yes, you are right, I am trying not to beat myself down too much over this. Thanks!
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    Ain't that the million dollar question...? I think we all wish we could answer it in every one of these situations. What would be funny is if she's having the exact same discussion in some girl forum right now..
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    That's pretty much the way I was thinking of going about it. When I first started this thread, I was thinking of texting her roughly a week after our last encounter. I like the idea of letting her wonder what I'm up to over the weekend. So I'll wait till Monday or so. Thanks for the actionable...
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    I get exactly what you mean, but don't worry, I'm not catching feelings. Just wanted to see what people here think wrt how to go about the contact. And I also agree about the anticipation component, texting too early would kill that.
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    Nope, it's been 2 days since I left her place, and I have not heard anything from her.
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    That's what I believe as well, thanks. I guess I'll wait a few days and then decide.
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    You think so? I don't really mind texting her, it's not an ego thing, but many others on this thread seem to believe it's better for me to wait for her to reach out. So I'm still torn.
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    Thanks man. The upside is that she did seem high interest from the beginning. The downside though is that this one interaction might not have created such a strong investment on her part, and some other OLD dude she's talking to may get her attention. Whatever, let's see how things play out.
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    Spent the night with girl without having sex - best way to proceed

    Then read it again, because that's not what I said either. What I said is more like 'I was on a dry spell despite being horny". And you may laugh about it as much as you want, that might actually force me to be avoid a similar outcome next time. I never ran away from the fact that this was an L.
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