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Ok so went for our first session, basically did exactly what GT40 advised. I let her do most of the talking. And it was not a blame game as we both am tired of that. We both admitted we want this to work out and be a couple again. Next appointment is today and I am thinking it will be more my...

Just taking it all in..reading and listening...guess I will call it growing with what everyone is stating..reason they are stating as they learnt the hard..just the way I am learning!!

Ok so GF of 9 yrs and I have been separated for 30 days. In the 30 days we hardly talked to each other the first 2 weeks..I did no contact then reached out and asked to talked. We talked that night and went good. She started to bring up the things that caused the separation. I calmly said lets...

UPDATE...so she came over and we talked about a lot things like our pets, how she was doing, how I was doing etc etc..stayed away from the fight issues for for about an hour. She started to bring it up and I graciously said were not going to talk about it..She got upset and said she had to go...

She did reach out about a week ago with a note that said "Living this way is killing me" I never responded back until today when I messaged her about talking tonight.

Thanks everyone for responding..little background on what our circumstances was that caused the separation. We were out having a couple drinks and dancing, she got jealous because I was in her words hanging on another lady. We went back to your room of course she was bent out of shape. Got in a...

So were meeting tonight after no contact. Not sure how its going to to go. Been separated almost 30 days. Whats your advise for trying to begin putting things back together..any advise??

Anyone ever try one of the 3 text messages that Brad Browning talks about under the articles tab...if so which one and how did it work?? Thinking of trying the one about thinking the breakup is cool and maybe we can be friends someday.

So...Been in no contact a week is all...its tough but managing ok. Tried to talk to her last week. She came over started out ok..looked like she was ok with it. Then it turned and I basically told her to get out. She left and messaged me later saying "Its to bad you didn't think me coming over...