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    The fine balance of self-development and acceptance

    I've been thinking about the following recently. I'm into self-development for quite some years and will probably always be. It takes, however, a bit of guessing into how much you should be changing yourself, without not losing self-acceptance. When I find an area that I want to improve, or I...
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    How I became an *******

    I started out as a typical nice guy, avoiding confrontation with people close to me, with strangers, and also with people working in the service industry who deserved a nice confrontation. Female or male, both got my best side - deserved or undeserved. Around a year ago I was going to a pretty...
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    Congruence during night game

    Hey guys, I rarely meet women during day, so I'm mainly approaching girls during night when I'm out in a bar/club. I'm there after a couple of drinks with friends, all fun and good - however, in this environment it's all about fun and craziness. I often feel going a bit overtop because of the...
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    Self limiting beliefs

    What's up Don Juans? I've been noticing recurrent self-limiting beliefs in my mind. What are my self limiting beliefs? It's weird to talk to strangers when they don't show big signs they want to talk I'm a strange person in general. I'm pushing social limits because I'm bored with daily life...
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    Compliments

    Let’s talk compliments. When a compliment comes from a needy position for the girl’s validation it’s definitely a bad thing. How about when it’s genuine and you just want to share it with the girl? Is there a thing of overdoing it when it comes from a genuine position? (Falling in love after...
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    Mystery

    Something isn’t clicking about being mysterious. Just going to throw out my thoughts and maybe some of you guys have some insights. I understand that some mystery keeps the girl guessing and that she’ll be more invested in you as she keeps trying to figure you out—she’s thinking about you and...
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    The bitterness of a recovering nice guy

    Dear Don Juans, Today I had an interesting insight. I'm a recovering nice guy who's now being kind of an ******* to compensate for his niceness. I was almost never bitter towards people--men and women--now I start to feel bitter to some. I realized this all has to do with who's judging who in...
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    How to put a girl in her place?

    What's up Don Juans?! I'm a recovering nice guy who decided to not be disrespected anymore, by no one, because... **** that shyt. I'm playing around with calling girls out on bull**** behavior more often with surprisingly positive reactions. A couple of days ago I lost a plate (if you can even...
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