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    Tactful way to express autonomy on a first date?

    I'm 51. Have done well over the years with women and oddly enough getting better still. I just do not want a monogamous traditional relationship. I do not want the "why didn't you text me last night?" Or "where is my good morning text?" Or "you saw me the last 2 Tuesdays so I figured you'd...
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    I need an opener for a specifc situation...

    I work from anywhere so I'm in coffee shops alot. This alone has improved my game more than any other way. I'm usually pretty good coming up with something on the fly. Sometimes it's direct, an observation, indirect, assumption, etc. I know all the angles. There is this one girl who comes in...
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    (Opinion? Thoughts?) Keeping your autonomy when you're middle aged...

    Wondering if anyone else has either gone through this or is going through this... I'm 51. Been divorced about 9 years. Never had a real problem with women. It obviously got better about 4 years ago when I started to understand red pill stuff and game and all that. Leveled up. Etc. Quality...
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    The Elusive IOIs

    The more I read blogs, books, forums, and field reports...the more I think something is off for me when it comes to receiving IOIs. Short version: I don't get them. Or it's super rare. Longer version: whether its day game or night game or just being present anywhere I'm not receiving IOIs...
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    Baffled by eye contact

    The last 3 or 4 days I've been on a big push to practice/experience/expose myself to the eye contact phenomena. I guess I'm bored. I happen to have been at alot of crowded malls, coffee shops, bookstores, and supermarkets. The goal was just to experience it. It didn't matter how ugly, hot...
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    Turn the table on them

    A buddy of mine I train jiu jitsu with is 50. I'm 47. His mom just passed away and his other circle of friends tell me he's becoming a miserable shut in. We are both going to 44 to 59 speed dating tomorrow. I'm taking him to get his ass out of the house. Plus it's good practice for me. I...
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    The Game - 30yr old vs 50yr old women

    I've just recently started "real life" approaching (Game - for lack of better term). Last five years, after my amicable divorce, I've lived off of the cesspool and psyche debilitating Online Dating. I found the idea of Game and the manosphere recently and dove right in, devouring everything I...
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    Speed Dating approach

    Yes, yes, I know the disadvantages of speed dating. It's desperate (for both sexes), the woman has the upper hand, the guy is pretty much operating in a female's reality/frame right off the bat, etc. etc. but my admin at work (she is probably an extra few pounds HB6 who I have zero interest in)...
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    Non-exclusive speech

    I usually date women in the 35 to 52 range. I am 47. I find that under 35 you really don't need to make it known early on that you are spinning plates and are non-exclusive. When someone asks me after a few dates or even after sex, "What are we?' or "what are you looking for?" - I usually...
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    Style Consultant and Beard Stubble Questions

    Two non-related questions: Anyone ever use a style consultant? Whether in person or over skype? Anyone know anyone who has? What is the feedback if any? I am 47. Growing the 10 day stubble for the first time. Light stubble looks dirty on me, going for medium to heavy. Hoping for touches...
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    Is this still salvageable?

    47 - divorced. Been OLD for the last 5 years. I woke up one morning recently and realized that's not real. Banging fat 5's is failure. Always worked on myself but not Game. After reading Rational Male (among other books) my mind was blown. Started dressing better and being bolder. I work...
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    Online vs Real Life HELP!

    My first post and I am glad to be here. Apologize if this is a bit long. I wanted to run a few things by you guys and see if anyone has had the same experiences and thoughts I have. There are probably lots of things at play here, but I’ll try and give you a foundation to help address my...
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