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This works. Even better if you're already sort of friendly with her at the gym.

Agreed but there is a fine line with leading them on just to end up dealing with drama months later. That's where my issue is. My buddies say i give too much hope and that's why they flip out down the road.

This is the way.

Me personally, I don't just want sex. The way I date now is...dinners, consistent with 1 or 2 girls. The main one may go on a trip with me etc. I've found "high quality" women are more apt to this than the attractive needy train wreck. Yes...some hq women won't stand for it. But some are...

You nailed it with the irrational mind. For some reason when it comes to the "what are you looking for?" question I use logic. I'm good at deflecting and joking and giving the tingles but never for that question. That's an easy fix and it was right in front of me the whole time. And if that...

I'm 51. Have done well over the years with women and oddly enough getting better still. I just do not want a monogamous traditional relationship. I do not want the "why didn't you text me last night?" Or "where is my good morning text?" Or "you saw me the last 2 Tuesdays so I figured you'd...

I work from anywhere so I'm in coffee shops alot. This alone has improved my game more than any other way. I'm usually pretty good coming up with something on the fly. Sometimes it's direct, an observation, indirect, assumption, etc. I know all the angles. There is this one girl who comes in...

I've learned this over the years as well and it is a very powerful rule to follow. Their imaginations run wild. Literally this past week I started seeing this blond. And I make sure not to text her alot and start all that crap. And she constantly would text me after a few days and somewhere...

Jiu jitsu easily. Gym after awhile. Those are the places I've made my tightest guy relationships over the last 15 years. And from there you can filter the success minded types from the shleps.

I agree with everything you said. I think a big thing in this community is the misconception that if they are lower value it sort of "doesn't count' because it's somewhat easier to game them. And in a sense it is. But like you said...you still have to display value enough for them to sleep...

Yeah. I just ended it with one who after like a year of casual just became bat **** crazy and had so many emotional problems and financial issues. She was an energy vampire.

Then I'm a sociopath because I've been doing this for years. The catch was they were my level or a little lower. Lately however I've been dating slightly above my level and higher. So I'm wondering if I can pull it off. I do in fact have solid reasons though that are true. Client dinners...

That's my point. Most are interested in exclusivity. I've jokingly said similar things like your tomcat analogy lol. Are you finding lots of women 40 and over not into exclusivity? It seems to be all I run into. (And don't worry. No way in hell I'd ever live with someone. You nailed the...

Wondering if anyone else has either gone through this or is going through this... I'm 51. Been divorced about 9 years. Never had a real problem with women. It obviously got better about 4 years ago when I started to understand red pill stuff and game and all that. Leveled up. Etc. Quality...

Lost count at 100. I'm 51. That's not a flex by the way. I'd say 50% to 60% were sub 6's.

I don't think I'm staring. I'm pretty good timing the eye contact so I don't look like an axe murderer. The smiling for no reason I never understood. If I'm smiling for no reason for an abnormal amount of time isn't that just as bad as staring. It will look like I should be in a mental...

The more I read blogs, books, forums, and field reports...the more I think something is off for me when it comes to receiving IOIs. Short version: I don't get them. Or it's super rare. Longer version: whether its day game or night game or just being present anywhere I'm not receiving IOIs...

I agree with this. Which raises the question...what if you're a 40 to 55 alpha-ish male? Does this mean you're screwed unless you go for 29 and younger? You certainly don't want to be that "beta" 47 year old that got lured into dating a 35 year old for the wrong reasons. And before everyone...

I know I'm really getting nuanced now...but I knew about the direction they look after eye contact is made. I knew if they look down there a good chance they are attracted/interested. What about sideways? Up? Does that mean they are repulsed? Is this look away rule set in stone? Just...

Yeah. I know. It wasn't the actual eye contact I was concerned about. It was the lack of any eye contact at all. The way people talk, write articles, and write whole books about it you'd think it happens constantly. Being in populated venues with a wide range of demographics I would've...