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    Women advertising at the gym

    The few females I have typically seen either are there with a one time personal trainer or are the dress up attention seeking types. The latter generally arrive with their men. At one time there were more, and most of the men would simp over them. Ignoring and focusing on a workout is best in...
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    video: "Redpill" - The Business of Exploiting Lonely men

    Their cuckold community has over 1.5 million members.
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    Same sort of approach, she said "aww thank you'

    Google the meaning of a girl saying “Aww.”
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    Same sort of approach, she said "aww thank you'

    They go hand in hand.
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    Women Don't Want a Semi-Successful Man

    The idea of becoming financially successful, fit, to find women is backwards. The idea should be about setting goals and achieving them for self betterment. Women will be more attracted to that than a man being obsessed with them, resulting in higher standard women to choose from.
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    Social Media Attention Wh0ring is just sad

    It can be a good source for pre-screening red flags from someone you just met.
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    How To Identify Borderline Personality?

    Different personas reflect their coping mechanisms from past traumas. They are experts at mirroring your personality which leads you to believe you are a match. Their need for attention becomes addicting. When you get drawn in they can’t handle being to close, or they fear you’re going to walk...
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    A Divorce Attorney's Thoughts On Love and Marriage:

    Having children outside of marriage is not a benefit, in that the man (assuming he makes more income) will still likely financially responsible as if he were divorced. Also, Look at the number of single mothers who list never being married in OD sights. This does not bode well for the...
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    How To Identify Borderline Personality?

    Yes that is usually the cause and left untreated Addictions are definitely their coping mechanism, including drugs and alcohol. There is a definite line between legit people with BPD and those who use the label for their exes after being dumped, however. IE BPD for females and narcissists for...
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    How To Identify Borderline Personality?

    Father was in the picture, but I found out she was abused while young by another family member. The importance of recognizing and avoiding red flags is paramount. I got drawn in by her assertiveness then she would pull away. I would withdraw and she would return. Getting too close meant being...
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    How To Identify Borderline Personality?

    Met one who had Quiet BPD from a relationship standpoint. I was temporarily caught up in a mind f$&&k. Went no contact as typically suggested. Months later, she re-emerged and I rejected several offers to meet up. She admitted she then knew how it felt to be treated like sh1t, so there was some...
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    Why are tattoos a red flag?

    “Equivalent of a bumper sticker on a Ferrari.” Picture what they will look like 10 years from now, and beyond.
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    Are These Sh*t Tests?

    I was referring to your series of posts. In reference, to post #48, sounds like love is replaced with toxicity and lack of respect. Either moving on or reestablishing leadership in the relationship might help, IMO.
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    Are These Sh*t Tests?

    You are obsessing over her when she should be obsessing about what you are thinking and doing. Moreover, being clingy and insecure is an attraction killer. Create mystery by forming your own interests and not giving a damn about routine texting patterns. Staying busy with your own life helps...
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    34 Married and Unhappy (in Miami)

    If she is not ambitious with a career or as a stay at home, she will be worse with kids in the picture. Sex will likely become non-existent as well. You provide all the ambition and money she needs to support her lifestyle.
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    What's your opinion of when Married men says "Oh She's the boss"

    Most are being serious. Subjugating their own happiness for their perceived wives’ happiness. Problem is, a woman’s happiness will never be fulfilled as long as a man feels his responsibility is to make her happy. In the end, she dominates the relationship and is miserable because she has the...
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    First date in almost years...totally bombed...and went from nice to nightmare.

    Cat and mouse, push/pull, where she does the opposite of what she says. She was distant, showed interest, guided you toward her, you pursued, and she became argumentative, backing off. Usually when you back off, she will eventually open the door and pursue until you reciprocate, continuing a...
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    She broke up with me over text need help.

    Has she apologized or even expressed regret for breaking up with you? You are validating her and will soon be buying her an expensive meal. Don’t be surprised if she withholds sex from you as a lure for future contact.
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    She broke up with me over text need help.

    Blocking (other than in cases of stalking, abuse, etc) is a sign of butthurt beyond the contact/ignore argument.
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