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I'm going to a friend's birthday party tonight and I'd like to help him out as a wingman. He's pretty good socially unless he drink too much. Last time we went to a wedding and I picked up the only good looking single girl out there, leaving him without any good options. Would like to make it up...

Or just "I'm not interested in being your friend." Nothing more. And then cut contact. If she'll consider it(seems unlikely but possible), she'll let you know. If not, you won't be hearing from her any more. Win-win.

Everyone thinks that what they don't have is a cheat code. It's just an excuse to not take action, to blame it on something external. When actually we all know that you can be short, ugly, poor, dumb, overweight or whatever and still have success with the opposite sex. We see it in our everyday...

Why would he punish her for her past? If she was good to him, why punish good behaviour? Not to mention that punishing and revenge is a fool's errand. If someone hurts you, you either forgive(which may take time or not) or walk away. Anything else is pointless and will only cause you more pain.

I don't know what half of these mean, nor do I give a fvck. Men are so much more than a stupid label. BTW, the poll lacks the "Bronzed Adonis" option, just in case legendary darts player Steve Beaton shows up. But he's too "apha" for that.

The fact that you went through her phone is too disgusting and unhealthy to ignore. That is your problem. If a girl would look through my phone, she would probably feel insecure and get the wrong idea. But that's not my problem. Everyone has shlt in their past, but why would you want to go...

Did she lie or did she just hide things? Because I don't have a problem with hiding some of your past, if you don't lie about it. I am far from perfect and made a lot of mistakes, but if I meet a girl I'm not gonna confess everything to her, especially if I like her. Maybe she did the same...

Women want a man who could walk away from them, but doesn't do it. Women want a man who could cheat on her, but doesn't. Women are turned on by power, not by disrespect. If she likes you and you like her, stop playing dumb games. If you're unsure, think about it, don't ask for a break. If...

By standing out, I meant having a different attitude. Money, fitness, cars, clothes are something many guys have. Won't make you stand out. But the way you make a woman feel, well that makes a big fvcking difference.

That's just more of a reason to become your best self and to differentiate yourself from the others, to be the one that stands out.

What's your goal? What are you looking for? That's the starting point. You can't make a plan without a purpose.

If I'd say I'm not looking for U25 girls I'd be lying. It's frustrating tho because I feel like I don't have much in common with that generation. I know it sounds ridiculous that a 5 years age gap is a big deal, but it totally is. The young women I meet are often just Facebook zombies who can't...

I can totally relate, especially that last paragraph. Passions are something that should be savoured alone, if she woman isn't as passionate about them as you. If you don't mind me asking: -How/where did you meet her? -What made you seriously consider making the "ultimate decision"?

That's the problem I am dealing with right now. I've been interested in art my whole life. Experiencing so much physical and inner beauty in books, good movies, paintings, music, faith, has made me a little numb when it comes to the women I usually meet. The fact that I've been lucky enough to...

Well, that's understandable. No one wants to be someone's 2nd choice. And especially not...you know...their 5th choice or something. Buying 10 shirts and wearing each of them once isn't the same as looking at 10 shirts and deciding on only one to buy and wear.

And when it comes to gossip, we men are the worst. And almost all men will envy you if you're successful with women. Being discreet will only benefit you.

That's a good point you're making. The way you're perceived mostly depends on how you behave. If you're known as a man who only fvcks around, girls will get bitter and talk sh1t about you. This will scare off women who want a LTR/marriage, but could attract other "serial datists". On the other...

Less sex, less STDs. There's always a full side of the glass.

This is golden. It helps with many other problems guys talk about on SS also.

"No publicity is bad publicity." The more different it is, the better.