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  1. matteo-d

    Is it good to "act like a prize ?"

    This concept has been around for a long time in the “seduction community”. A lot of men who are interested in seduction have also read the book Real World Seduction. Actually, I’ve seen healthy and non healthy interpretations of what Prizing really is. Prizing is often described as taking the...
  2. matteo-d

    I'm losing hope on my way

    Wow... tough story man. Yeah indeed when so much pain is gathered together in your life, it's the best indication that you have to change it. And that sometimes mean cutting every contact you have with toxic people. Your parents seem to be a huge pain for you right now. The problem I see is...
  3. matteo-d

    Her Going Feminine

    Beautifully said ! I see so many guys trying to make compromise and to make their woman happy by sacrificing themselves.... Whereas, as you said, if she is in a masculine ax rage, she needs a stronger man to calm her down and bring out her feminine side, not the puppy who will keep apologizing...
  4. matteo-d

    When choosing a female partner, make sure she has a job in a similar income range

    lol, looks like you have some personal ****ty story you want to share ^^ I understand though, my rule has always been: Never engage with a woman who has much more problems than you do (money being one) Even though I admit in the beginning I made the mistake countless times...
  5. matteo-d

    Aggressive or Passive ?

    +1 on this ! Indeed, her inbox must be filled with hundreds of guys harassing her all the time, do you really expect her to skim through all the pretenders every day ? lol Indeed focus on live interactions, ask her out for anything, if she likes you as much as you say, she will say yes to...
  6. matteo-d

    What exacly does 'frame' mean?

    "Frame" usually refers to the assumptions and presuppositions linked to a situation. 1) Frames are the assumptions linked to a specific situation If people are meeting in a business negotiation. The frame being Business negotiation implies several assumptions: - Stay formal with the guys on the...
  7. matteo-d

    Restarting a convo when you see shes back on dating app a few months later?

    Just send any random message to say hi, the most important is to calibrate to how she responds If she responds warmly with tons of words, that's good, but if she responds very cold or wait ages before answering, do the same, never give her more attention than she gives in the beginning, then...
  8. matteo-d

    Did she flake? How to proceed?

    Love that :D That also bring a very good point, a lot of beginners think that if they were bodybuilders or rich they would get all the women they want, which I think is completely untrue. BUT ! it is true that once you have built all the foundation and are able to flirt/meet/have sex as you...
  9. matteo-d

    Holding hands

    Would you really ask that question if you didn't give a **** about what people think of you ? Why caring so much about other people's opinion. Beta or alpha, when you want to do something, just do it, and don't apologize, as long as you're not hurting anybody, you do whatever you want. If you...
  10. matteo-d

    She shows up but won't show up

    Yeah pretty much the same opinion as above, she seems to like being chased by guys, that's very often a sign of low self esteem, needing to have so much male attention... The way I see it, you have two major options: - if your thoughts about her are really overwhelming, your only option is to...
  11. matteo-d

    Soon 20, and I've never kissed, and I feel like I got no idea in the this whole relationship field

    Approaching 20 years old and still nothing ? lol, I was a virgin until I was 21, and two years later I had 3 girlfriends in open relationships, all knowing about each other. Age is just a number bro, there's no rule as to how young or old you should be to have such or such thing. And actually...
  12. matteo-d

    How does one stop being fragile?

    The need to be accepted by others will always grow out of lack of love. But love from others will never replace the love you can give to yourself. - Ask yourself: what do you actually like in yourself ? If the answer is no, - Then what can you do to start liking yourself as a person. When...
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