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Girls just love attention, they will string orbiters along for the free validation they get from them.

Good pointers, wish u best in life.

The difference between a simp talking sweet and a dj is the subtext. The simp will come off as needy and value seeking, the dj will give value and have an abundance mindset. And this isn't just those couple of sentences but it's related to the whole dynamic between the two. As you said...

Oh god... Why did you even text her in the first place? No offense but I think you are a lost cause. Get a grip on yourself and read the forum carefully.

If a girl is confusing you whether or not she is interested, she isn't. She is just playing games. When you have a woman with a high IL everything goes effortlessly, she'll move mountains to see you. She might be a bit interested, but as far as I can see she's just having some fun with you. You...

I agree. After a couple of relationships most women have to much bagage to really love again. Her past boyfriends are always in their mind. I think you have to really stand out to give them consistent feelings again, older women will refer to it as "feeling young again". However I think there...

Who cares? Next time strike up a conversation with her if you want to know if she's attracted to you or not. Stop analyzing and start taking action. No need for mental masturbation.

Good post, once a woman has high IL in you "game" isn't about what you do, it's about what you don't do so you don't **** it up.

The fact that you're here posting a thread about this girl you only talked too for a month already means you are way too emotionally invested. You should delete her on FB & instagram because you will keep obsessing over her, this will give you some sort of closure and will give you the feeling...

Biggoal would definitely be interested in this topic. What happened to that guy?

Good pick. Going NC imo is the best, you don't want to become their texting buddy, you can't meet up anyway.

I have a couple of spots I bring girls to on the first date of which I have some cool stories, so if the conversation goes dry I'll tell one of those. You could have some canned questions but still, as Tony said, if the conversation isn't flowing well asking general questions out of the blue...

I think the only realistic way to ever get out the friendzone is to have no contact for a couple of years and improve your SMV. And then accidentally bump into eachother, not you contacting her via social media.

It also depends on how you have behaving until now, if you have been texting back a lot and you can't just stop now. I think it's important to set the standard at the start of the dating/LTR, if she nags how you take a lot of time to responds or the fact that you never send her goodnight you can...

It depends. First 1-2 months don't see her more than once a week and sometimes skip a week. After sex she should start doing the pursuing, which she does according to your post so that is good. If you want to give her the gift of missing you, skip a week. If she asks to meet up say you'd love...

My longest lasted a couple of months and the reason it lasted so long was because I really thought the woman had potential and I feel like we didn't reach our expiration date of the LTR yet. I no longer miss her but I think we could have some great months/years. To numb the pain I just got drunk...

A woman I was dating last year hits me up every once in a while asking for attention but since we met up a couple of times before COVID and had sex I would try to plate her. This girl always answers very fast with big messages. Anyway she starts texting me during lockdown and all is good...

I think she was a guest on Joe Rogan's podcast and they talked about it in the interview.

Good post, I agree. I think we have all fallen into this trap atleast once in our life. Walking away, focusing on my purpose would have made such a big difference. Why waste time on a low to medium level interested woman? (For LTR)

He will break the NC anyway, there's no doubt about it. Keep us updated.