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I don’t have confidence and people can see that. I don’t get encouragement from friends or family to achieve anything. It’s nonstop “you should have done better.” This has eroded my confidence with women. I used to approach every woman I found attractive but because I didn’t have a lot of...

I’ve talked to more people, took an acting class and am doing neuroplasticity exercise with a therapist.

Yes generally pretty awkward when it comes to talking with people.

It’s the fact that I haven’t had much sex or dating in my life. I obsess over it. I feel like I’ve missed out. Especially in my 30’s. People keep saying that meeting people gets easier. That’s been a lie at every stage of life.

How can I stop focusing on my insecurities?

Thanks!

Even though my life is not much different from when I made my last thread things are looking up. I have had a shift in my thinking. I’m living more purposefully. I’m being more present. I have life goals in mind and now I just have to go out and get it. 2019 year of the grind.

I have decided I (after finding a job) am going to start living with purpose to my life. Everything I do from now on will be to work towards a singular goal.

I think I have that part figured out. It's just that it's going to take a while to get there. 5 years minimum.

I'm not here for pity or motivation. I'm here for advice. I'm in a hole and I need to know how to get out of it.

I am currently jobless, overweight, balding, only some college. I forfeited my future to work for my parents and that ended 2 years ago. I kind of hate my life right now. I have only been on one date in the past 5 years. It really is that bad and I can only obsess about it. I need to take my...