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@Lumix this is something that i just realized after reading your post - "thee problem is, when you have no purpose, you make women your purpose ", in the past when i had girls all the time around me, i was mostly chasing money/better jobs... now since i am like "ughh" with the money/jobs, i...

This will be long post - me bitching about life, so if you dont like it, dont read it. I am 30 y old, worked the past 10 years in high paid jobs in Europe, but spent all of it on drugs, alcohol and partying, I am getting good salary, yet i havent saved anything. So my financial situation is...

Okay, considering what all of you say is true. Why wouldn't you press further? Obviously by your writing she was down to **** - your car, her place, your place etc. I have pressed chicks with much less attraction to me harder and it ended up with sax. You should have escalated and pumped the...

From personal experience. Don't fall for the "she made the effort to explain this to me, therefore there might be any interest". It happened to me few months ago, but my reply was to next her and that "I have enough friends already". She was just trying extra hard to keep you in friend zone...

Invite her to your place and advance, see what happens.

Cmon bro, ignore the BS that she threw at you. (huge pile of shait) It is something else for sure, yet at this point it will be inadequate to even try to guess it. Few reasons that come to mind - wants to keep you around, waiting for someone else, some medical issues, huge issues with self...

1. She was testing you. 2. You failed the test and you entered her frame. 3. She lost interest after the moment she knew where she stands with you and that she can spin you as she wants. I have had the SHYEST girls text me first and invite me to meet them up, it's not about the shyness at all...

Try getting few drinks and approach after that. Keep in mind however that women wouldn't go with you if you are drunk even if they liked you, so keep your limit. After that you should be able to slowly do it without any drinks.

2 dates for only a hug from OLD? Wouldnt put any much more effort into this, wouldn't even hope that she contacts me. Dont ask this question... its pointless.

I believe it's easier to delete/unfollow and remove from all contacts, as it helps you heal faster. As if the OP is constant FB/Social media user, he will constantly see something, which will dig into the wound. Just my humble opinion on the fact and it depends on how much plates you have...

I see it from different point of view, if it's someone you are interested in and she only talks about issues in her life, basically she is just using you as a male girlfriend to complain and have small interest in you. If she was interested in you she wouldn't tell you any major "issues" in her...

I personally never ask, why would you need to know this? How this information servers your needs? If you are a rebound, is it a bad thing? Usually women bring up those questions to try to get more information about your value and test you a bit.

Comments in bold. QUOTE="pabloescobar, post: 2675767, member: 151161"] Yeh to put some context it was a girl i saw in uni which i got her number and we have been talking over some months until we could hang out, when the both of us had time (tbh i was pretty persistant on this girl). It took...

It's a very complicated matter, however IMHO. Boys tend to look to their fathers in 2 ways - first how they interact with their mother, and we tend to copy this behavior to future relationships, everything from simple gestures to how to behave around your future women, I am not saying how to...

There was a detailed discussion, which is nice, to hear different opinions on the matter. I have tried to understand spring's point of view, however after a while I ignored him, his only point in every post was to say "OP is sad miserable person who bailed at the first challenge" which is...

Yes my friend, you walk out on girls who show you even slight disrespect, or you are the one who will stay there and deal with all their crap, until their LJBF you? As I said previously, I was not even going to reply, yet I though to not make any potential further social gathers awkward, that's...

Funny bro, actually this happened, and I chatted with a friend of mine for 2-3 minutes, kept it short as not to totally ignore her, and NO she did not come to us and interrupt us when I didn't introduce her. She didn't involve herself in our conversation. The key difference here is I kept it...

@ Mauser thats my point. @stringpuller - I don't think you have even read what I typed. I was there for 15 minutes calmly drinking and chatting with few friends on the phone, there was no one else around for me to engage in a chat, and they were chatting without event trying to involve me in...

Nah, already replied just to preserve the "okayish social circle", with "I got bored", to which there were few apologies and etc, will not reply further.

I see your point, but you understand also that even if I stayed, even if introduced, this leads to nowhere as she can keep chatting with him, what do I do then? Stay aside like a puppy? You seriously suggest to wait for them to have their nice chat? I think there is a very thin line here...