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    Lied about being a personal trainer

    Recently I was chatting with a girl on Hinge. When she asked me my occupation I lied and claimed to be a personal trainer. She informed me that she had just started going to the gym and was looking for a trainer. I jokingly offered my services, and she genuinely seems to want to be coached by...
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    Woman has purchased ticket to visit me, but I'm seeing someone

    Long story short: I was talking to two women simultaneously, one local and the other long-distance. Things have moved quickly with the local girl to the point where we're spending the night together 3-4 times per week and she's referred to me as her boyfriend. The issue is the long-distance girl...
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    How viable is an active dating life without using apps

    I'm interested in consensus opinion as to how viable it is for men to have successful dating lives without using predatory dating apps. I'm 35 years old and have been banned from virtually every mainstream app. Prior to the ban I'd been relatively successful on apps, multiple hookups and...
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    Twin Cities area

    Any forum members in the the Minneapolis metro? Looking for a wing. I'm 35, mainly interested in girls ages 18-27. Focused on daygame and maybe a bar/event here and there.
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    Female sex drive post-menopause

    As we know women have a much smaller window of fertility (teenager to roughly 40) as opposed to men who can have children into old age. From a biological perspective, what would be the evolutionary purpose of women having sexual desire past the age of viable fertility? Any insight?
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    Cold approach accountability

    I want to get back into cold approach. I'm nearly 35 years old and haven't consistently COd since I was 19-20, so I'm obviously rusty and prone to procrastination. I'm making this thread for accountability so I don't lapse into inaction. I'm planning on day game at local universities and...
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    Banned from Hinge: Workarounds, other options?

    Hi, I was recently banned from Hinge. I'm interested in workarounds to getting back on the app, and failing that, other dating apps worth using. I've been banned from Tinder and was able to circumvent the ban with relative ease, but from what I've been told Hinge is significantly more...
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    Female reasoning capabilities

    The parts of a woman’s brain that handle speech and emotion are spread across both halves of the brain, whereas these capacities in a man are tucked into discreet locations. Moreover, the corpus callosum, which connects the right and left brains, is thicker and more highly developed in women...
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    Boats & Women

    Women on dating sites seem to be infatuated with boats. Personally, I enjoy the open water, but I explore it in my kayaks, which young women have little interest in. I've been toying with the idea of getting a small, relatively inexpensive boat. It seems to be a good default date option. Instead...
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    Hartford/Providence/New Haven

    Anyone in the area? Looking for a wing.
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    Lottery/wealth and happiness

    Opinions?
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    Wilt Chamberlain

    https://www.basketballnetwork.net/kareem-abdul-jabbar-shares-the-secret-behind-wilt-chamberlains-success-with-women/ Opinions?
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    Are men hypergamous?

    I often hear the claim "both men and women are hygergamous and desire the best mate possible." I disagree completely. As a man with knowledge of female nature, I desire a woman who has lower SMV than I for a long-term relationship. I know that on a biological level women are most satisfied...
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    Career advice

    So, I'm a professional gambler and women generally detest gambling. I used to be honest about my profession with women, but began lying due to their adverse reaction. My current go to is that I'm a real estate investor, but I've been thinking of coming up with a new storyline. Any ideas?
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    Dicaprio: conscious or subconscious?

    It's well known (at least in the manosphere) that DiCaprio doesn't date women over 25. My question is whether this is a conscious decision, or he simply naturally loses attraction to his partners when they reach that age.
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    Second thoughts about ending relatuonship

    I started dating a girl off Hinge in October and we made the decision to become exclusive in January. I'd say I'm a 7 or 7.5 and she's a 5 or 5.5, so we were a good match. Ideal SMV gap; she felt I was a catch and I was just happy to have a sweet girl who didn't put me through a ton of BS. I...
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    Reveal age before entering relationship?

    I've been seeing a girl I met on an OLD app for the past month. She's 25, decent looking, has her life together (career, own apartment, etc). She's made it clear she's interested in seeing each other exclusively. The primary issue is that I'm 33 years old and listed my age as 25 on the app. I...
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    Vasectomy advice

    I've decided to get a vasectomy. I'm 32 years old and have never wanted kids. I don't have a lot of disposable income and am looking for an inexpensive method of getting the procedure done ($500 or less.) Any options in my price range? Furthermore if any men care to share their personal...
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    Getting young girls on dates

    I've been pulling a bunch of snaps off tinder but have been unable to successfully get the girls on a date. I've been taking precaution not to come off as needy/desperate but I've probably blown it a couple times out of frustration. Basically I've just been getting every excuse in the book, you...
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    You must tell yourself she's already left

    I truly believe there's only one way to interact with romantic interests: to tell yourself she's already left and respond accordingly. Think about it rationally; what percent of relationships stand the test of time (until one partner dies)? The percentage is infinitesimally small. Therefore...
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