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    “the-power-to-walk-away-from-a-girl” myth…ghosting?

    @stormrider actually summed it up quite nicely. This is what I meant in the first place. Let's put it once again plain and simple: 1) a guy can ghost because he's adequately estimated the situation and feels like his game was not strong enough, hence he's most likely to waste more time pushing...
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    “the-power-to-walk-away-from-a-girl” myth…ghosting?

    Wrong! I'm too old to mold myself only now to gain certain interest that way. As I clearly stated, I raised that question because I was curious about what goes thru a chick's mind when she gets ghosted (usually it's the other way around 8 out of 10 times) and secondly, I wanted to check other...
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    “the-power-to-walk-away-from-a-girl” myth…ghosting?

    I never wanted to discuss this as though it might be some wicked little trick you can pull on a girl for regaining her attention/attraction. We are aware that a man should be walking away for his own good, because he's being smart and values his time and once he ejects, he should never look...
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    “the-power-to-walk-away-from-a-girl” myth…ghosting?

    Hey fellas, I’m sure everyone here has heard of or read, or listened to a bunch of coaches and mentors from the PUA and red pill society and they all put a great emphasis on the importance of a man being really capable of turning his back on a girl and walk away if “the deal” doesn’t work in...
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    Why women want to look such nasty and masculine?

    I believe the thing with short green/pink haircuts is just a temporary stage in the life of really young girls. I can rarely see a girl over 23-4 dying her hair in some weird color. On the other hand the tattoo trend is really annoying and I personally put it on the same level with the social...
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    Here we go again... girl with commitment issues...

    Drop her before you really start falling for her deeper. You've allowed her to crack your frame and take over the dynamics of the relationship. Additionally, is she from some kind of a dysfunctional family. You mentioned stepdad. I'm smelling a damaged goods case here and these girls are not the...
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    How to recognize if girl wants relationship or just sex

    Ok, I'm with you on this one. Pretty much thought the same, save for the day after the date when I thought she may have had some buyer's remorse, although it was only a kiss close. Just didn't put the bottle of wine into the equation. Now, regarding your last sentence, this is another tricky...
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    How to recognize if girl wants relationship or just sex

    I had a similar situation with a girl a week or so ago. So we matched on tinder and I intuitively felt she was a good material. We chatted back and forth for a few days and agreed to meet up at a restaurant downtown. We sat and spent 3 hours there, had a bottle of wine each the convo was very...
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    Ghosted by yet another woman, I don't get it.

    I know it follows a basic etiquette, especially if you've just met a new person but it just puts you in a bad position with a girl. I don't know if anyone has mentioned it so far but I don't think you needed to inform her of your schedule for a week ahead. Wanting her to tell you when she'll be...
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    Ghosted by yet another woman, I don't get it.

    You didn't have enough time to work on building attraction with her as you were working and needed to move with your tasks for the day. Then you simply overdid the texting. Also, girls don't have much of a problem giving their contacts - for them this falls within the safety zone. They don't...
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    "Hypergamy" is a security blanket for insecure males

    No one said otherwise. That is a rule of thumb. Yet again, you're not following me. HG can be kept at bay but hardly indefinitely. You being at the top of your game can only postpone HG in time but could hardly block it forever. Please define "continuously"! What is that? A year, three years, 10...
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    "Hypergamy" is a security blanket for insecure males

    I don't think you got me correctly. Hypergamy has much less to do when we're talking about an initial phase of a relationship when it's still pretty much a matter of attraction. My chats won't be relevant here. If a girl is initially attracted to you in the first place, she automatically...
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    "Hypergamy" is a security blanket for insecure males

    Hypergamy exists and people much smarter than us here have figured this out long long time ago. Like it or not, it's out there. I find it useless for us to b*tch about it on the web and try to fight it. We could only adjust and adapt. Think of it this way: the cow is a huge animal, eats a lot...
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    Height vs Muscle, Take A Pick?

    You need to distinguish "tall vs short" depending on geographical location. Obviously, the further south you go, the smaller would be the average height of the population. Now, 5’9” may be perfect for Latin America or Southern Europe but won't look good for Canada, much of Northern US or...
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    5 texts you should never send to a girl

    Dose makes the poison. Depends on how you view things in the first place. Lots of people may think it's cheesy even if she is with a GF status and will come back at you: "well, dude, in this case why don't you send good morning texts to your closest male friends, your dad or your brother". In...
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    5 texts you should never send to a girl

    Yeah, I used to be mad at that typical "seen" treatment so many girls practice followed by no response until the end of the day, the next day or ever...or followed by a really short, cold one as though she's writing with her second cousin. Logically, as a guy, I'd much rather have "can't talk...
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    How to keep a woman around

    Should be working fine for a FWB type of dynamics, however not sure if it is okay for a legit relationship pattern. Yeah, right..probably if you are an 8 guy and she is 3-5. Honestly, how long do you think she'll be okay with that little date&smash tactics of yours, provided she's a pretty...
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    There's No Pattern To a Woman's Attraction

    Totally agree with the one in bold, which is pretty much depicting the crooked self-evaluation most women out there have for themselves and totally disagree with the rest of the quote. Do you honestly believe that an average looking girl will lower her standards, just like that, and get laid...
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    So what's your baldness situation?

    Nearly 35 and still have full, thick hair which grows so fast that I need to go to the barber shop every 20 days or so. Not a single grey/white spot either. I remember having read some research online stating that the "best" boding age for young men is 23-28, after which you could pretty much...
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    Suddenly ditched by a girl with daddy issues; beta behavior doing the damage;

    @Spaz, Care to elaborate what exactly makes my thinking sooo feminine? If it is the fact that I got emotionally hooked by this very girl or I'm not the unscrupulous beast pick up communities teach us to be, so be it. Yes, true - emotions make us weak. I know that. I don't usually happen to get...
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