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  1. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    I didn't post every single detail of our situation on this thread, but to summarize: We've been hooking up for 2+ months. I banged her on the 2nd date. She initiates 85% of the time. Last weekend, she flew outta town to see family. I told her to come by my place once she landed. She did and we...
  2. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    Alright, so our night went well. I ended up Going to her place around 730pm. She was beaming as soon as she saw me. She brought me into her bedroom immediately and we had sex after some brief small talk about our week’s. (We don’t do much texting). We just hung out, watched a movie, she made me...
  3. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    Alright. I won’t say that. Thanks, sazc. I’ll let you know how our evening goes. In the logistics part of the texts, we agreed to have a ‘low key’ evening. I suggested some low key spot near her place and she countered that we’ll just figure it out when I come over. I’m thinking we may not even...
  4. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    When I see her, I also plan on saying something the lines of: I was being jackass by not responding/shutting you out when you just wanted to see me. I didn’t make you feel appreciated. I’m sorry.
  5. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    Alright, so I’m seeing her tonight. Feels like I have it back on track. Here was the texting exchange. Me: ‘hey, hope you had fun at HH. Our family dog was sick all week and we had to put it down on Thursday night. Had to take care of some stuff, but want to see you soon.’ Her: ‘hi, missed you...
  6. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    Definitely happened, dude. I stated that in my first post.
  7. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    First ‘relationship’ after my 10-year relationship ended (5 years dating, 5 years marriage). I’m rusty, dating-wise. I have not been exposed to many nurturing women. My ex wasn’t and my mother isn’t. This current plate is very nurturing, tho.
  8. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    Thanks everyone for the responses. She’s a big animal lover, so I’ll get a warm response for this one. I just texted her this: “Hey, hope you had fun at HH. Our family dog was sick all week and we hadda put her down late Thursday night. Taking care of some stuff but want to see you soon.”
  9. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    I also don’t want to sound like a beta f** by saying ‘oh sorry that I don’t feel being social because my dog was sick all week and I had to put her down on Thursday night’
  10. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    She was probably upset that I didn't come. Over the last four days, she invited to tag along with her/her friends twice. I declined both times. Every few weeks, I'll do a friend event. I've turn down the invites more often than accepting them. If we're hanging 1-on-1, it's cool, but she's the...
  11. Kidd55

    Blowing off a new plate/potential LTR

    I've been dating/fcking an ex co-worker (26-years-old) for about 2.5 months now. When it comes to sex, she offers me little-to-resistance. We've both invested time/money into each other (e.g., drinks, fun outings, etc.) I let her initiate about 80-85% of the time and I set-up time together. The...
  12. Kidd55

    Pending Divorce/Starting to Date: When Should I Bring It Up?

    Gotcha. What’s the best way to frame It so it isn’t just sex? I don’t want to telegraph too much interest yet, but she’s come out of her way to see me twice. She drops hints about wanting to do specific outings, but I haven’t made solid plans yet since she’s going away for a week.
  13. Kidd55

    Pending Divorce/Starting to Date: When Should I Bring It Up?

    Well, I told her to come to my neighborhood again last night. She agreed. Had a blast, went to new bars. At the first place, she said she wasn't sleeping over. I smiled and agreed, told her no pressure. At the second place, we were all over each other, made out a ton, etc. After an hour or so...
  14. Kidd55

    Pending Divorce/Starting to Date: When Should I Bring It Up?

    Alright, back for a quick question. We were supposed to go to a baseball game tomorrow. However the weather is bad, which sucks because the logistics were good to get her to come home. She texted me, saying she was bummed about the weather. I told her I had Plan B ready to go. (I didn’t tel her...
  15. Kidd55

    Pending Divorce/Starting to Date: When Should I Bring It Up?

    Yup. A lotta truth in here. I progressed the date forward sexually throughout the night. Sex just 'sort of happened'. She even said that this 'typically doesn't really happen'. My drinking, probably some of her nervousness of the situation (e.g., first time hooking up, first time at my place)...
  16. Kidd55

    Pending Divorce/Starting to Date: When Should I Bring It Up?

    Well, she just left. Needless to say, we had an amazing night. Started a little rocky. I grabbed a table in the middle of the crowded outdoor beer garden. She came in, gave me a hug and a kiss on the cheek. She’s sort of guarded, so I knew I needed to loosen her up. Drinks started flowing, I had...
  17. Kidd55

    Dare I enter after almost 10 years?

    OP, there's a lot of great advice in this thread. Keep us updated.
  18. Kidd55

    Dare I enter after almost 10 years?

    Sounds like you're happy. I wouldn't change anything.
  19. Kidd55

    Pending Divorce/Starting to Date: When Should I Bring It Up?

    Thanks. I suggested a spot by me. She agreed, so I'll post an update this weekend.
  20. Kidd55

    Pending Divorce/Starting to Date: When Should I Bring It Up?

    Just an update. She just texted me, apologizing for not getting back to me last night. She asked me if I wanted to go to this place in Mahattan. I didn’t suggest a place yet. I can counter with coming to Queens. Just deciding how fast I want to move this forward. This was someone I worked with...
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