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  1. TechnoScotch

    Logistics: Clean Apartment

    So I am constantly running into a logistics issue, and wonder how others have dealt with it. I work. A lot. I have other family obligations I simply can't shirk. So I have very little energy left to keep my apartment clean. It's not completely terrible - no piles of trash or anything like...
  2. TechnoScotch

    Pros and cons of ghosting

    So, I am new to all this... not until listening to The Rational Male did it occur to me that it's ok to be non-exclusive by default, and pursue multiple women simultaneously. So I'm talking to, and meeting women, and what I am encountering is that some of them, after speaking to them a few...
  3. TechnoScotch

    Why Doesn't Greene's Rake Look Desperate?

    Reading Robert Greene's Art of Seduction. The Rake gives all of himself to a woman. But how does he manage to not repel her by seeming desperate? Is it about being overtly devoted to her, but covertly communicating that he has other options?
  4. TechnoScotch

    Emojis in texts - unmanly?

    I wonder if my thoughts of sometimes using them aren't a result of my conditioning to adjust to he feminine imperative.
  5. TechnoScotch

    Is my fear irrational?

    I have a female friend, that I met 5 - 6 years ago. Our interaction has always been very friendly and open. Recently, I sent her a WhatsApp voice message explicitly expressing my desire to have sex with her. She was quite receptive and asked that we make it happen. Here is the problem: She and...
  6. TechnoScotch

    Strange LJBF

    Before I discovered the community and the red pill, I did something stupid. This girl flirted with me heavily: I sent her a funny meme, she sent it back to me with a **** drawn on the guy in the picture. Asked me out on a date, and bought me a drink. Here comes the stupid part: I then told...
  7. TechnoScotch

    Was Too Blunt - Scared Her Away

    Started talking to a girl online. She was really into me, suggested we make time to hang out once our schedules clear. Was reaching out herself, despite being super busy with work. At some point we were exchanging voice messages over WhatsApp. She showed off her foreign language skills -...
  8. TechnoScotch

    Women Asking For Advice

    Say, a woman I am interested in comes to me for advice on something I am competent in. Do I dodge it, to avoid being Captain Save-A-Hoe?
  9. TechnoScotch

    Letting Her Talk About Her Past Men

    I've seen this mentioned multiple times already, that a man shouldn't let a girl talk to him about her other men or her past men. So I have two questions: What is the logic behind it? Is it still important to lay down this rule, even if I'm with the girl just for the sex, and am not...
  10. TechnoScotch

    Beginner Questions about the Rational Male

    Hello, Just listened to The Rational Male, and I am unclear on a few things, so if anyone can point me to other posts that perhaps answer them, many thanks. Rollo says that the fact that I am non monogamous should be implied, but never overtly communicated to the women. But what if they ask...
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