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    Told my girl about my family. She ghosted...

    So I guess I did something stupid, though, she'd probably find out about it anyway. We were getting good, at least I thought. We were even planning on our first long week plus vacation in November. It was a cruise of some sort. She never Google'd me, but if she did, she'd find out about my...
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    Girl I am seeing is away with fam, asks me what I am doing this weekend

    Seeing this girl, 32, for a few months and she went away to celebrate her sister's birthday with the fam. She's been texting me as she's been away and she just texted What are you doing this weekend? What's the best way to respond w/o looking like a d!ck or lame? I have plans tonight and...
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    Strange situation, silly, but need advice

    Here's the situation. A year or so ago I joined a group of people to go bowling once a week with. It's usually every Thursday and every one has a great time. About two months ago a old girl joined the group. She was shy, but slowly started to open up. One thing led to another, and we decided to...
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    Not sure if this is the right forum. Mental wellbeing for a good guy

    I was out to drinks with a couple of friends I've known for a many years. One of them was explaining to us, after a few drinks, he's not doing so well socially. We think it because he feels his holdbacks lower his SMV so much, he's just given up. He was married and he held on because he didn't...
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    Asked for her #, set a date, offered to reschedule when I confirmed

    Was out with a few people last week and one of the other people's friends was kinda hot, but 25. We melded pretty well and I said we should grab a drink, she suggested next Wed, and texted me her #. It was set for Wed., so I texted tonight to confirm around 8pm and I didn't hear back. I assumed...
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    Too late to go to med school?

    Is 38 too late to go to med school? I always wanted to be a doctor and my life to mean something. Have a purpose and such. I am self-employed and the income is stable, but it's boring. I always felt I was put on this earth to do more. Perhaps not, but who knows. I do know that several medical...
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    Online dating lies.. I know I am going to get hell for this, but why?

    I've suspended my profile, as I just think after a few dates already, it's a bit of a waste of time. Anyways, last night I met another women for drinks. It went better than Friday, and even lasted longer than 20 minutes. Hehe. Here's the low down, which, IDK, I think she should had disclosed...
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    Worst first meet of my life

    I am new to this online dating thing since my divorce a few years ago, but tonight was my first trek out. It was horrible. Woman looked like her pictures, but the personality of a door. Very little to talk about. She doesn't like sports. She doesn't like to do anything but travel. Has not future...
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    Pop out a kid or two and they jet. Is that becoming the standard?

    I've known quite a few men that I have a business relationship with where they're going or had been going through a divorce. This seems to had increased over the last year or two in the metro ny area in my professional circles. It seemed to me this happened after they had the kid or kids and...
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    Ever buy a home in the wrong place because you thought it was a good idea??

    Several years ago I was working in the city and had enough of the city life... At 29. So, stupidly, I purchased a home in the rural part of the state about 45 minutes away from the city. While I enjoy the peace and quiet, after a decade or so I am thinking it's just a bit too quiet. Since I...
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