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Similar to Anti dump... High interest, keep talking. Low interest, stop talking. I noticed that girls with less experience tend to be more chatty, whilst girls with more experience(in men) don't find anything special in you and keep it simple. Could be wrong though.

BTW TO ADD this is very helpful, I had trouble with messaging, and I made a lot of mistakes that I could have avoided but this really clears a lot of questions I had in my head. THANK YOU!

Makes sense, but is that on Tinder? Say I got her number in real life, but I didn't talk about dates/drinks, same thing applies right? And if she doesn't reply after the first message then she's not interested? It's not because the message isn't captivating right? The message could include...

Ok say I got a girls number, sent an ice breaker (hey its me etc), they respond back politely. Now my goal is to take her on a date. So in this case, what should I be texting then? Should my next text be along the lines "lets hang out?" or is it far too early?

Ok could you expand point 1 ? Should we chat with them? I've been hammered that texting is for logistics because every message could get more needier as you get more emotional. Therefore say I got a number and I text back a low investment ice breaker. Say she responds then what? What on earth...

I guess I had a burn out. Stress got the best of me and I got uncertain. I'll probably be back soon :) Thanks brethren! Might need to tighten my Game!

Roger that, those who haven't experienced day game, cold or warm never understand how much this rejection can be intense on the mind, on the ego, especially when its above 50 rejections. That if you actually listen to those 'self doubt' voices in their head, you can easily convince yourself that...

Yes, I failed. I think I've burnt out. I got this feeling in my mind as if someone gave you an impossible mission and they know you are going to fail. But maybe its your ego, or maybe its in you, rooted deep down to not quit, to try against all odds, to give it one more shot, to put one foot in...

Going back to this point, I just feel like saying Ok doesn't offer anything/closure. She states a point and instead of noticing that point, you just say ok, which is more like "lets not talk about it at all/idgaf." Idk I might be looking into this way too deeply. Which has its own benefits...

Is this like an anti flake text ? Wouldn't it be better sending saying "Hey Im running late for 15 or 20 mins" or if sending a text earlier at noon saying "see you today at 6pm?" For the follow up, wouldn't it be better saying hows your schedule looking like this weekend/week to grab some...

Yeah I thought it was a way to get her more invested in the date itself and reduce flaking. Yeah so in a few days hit her up again and why text instead of calling? I thought calling is the preferred way no? Why would you say analyzing ok is not worth it? I mean, does this mean I messed up and...

So question dudes, now to keep it simple and stupid, here are the facts: I asked her out two weeks ago in person (kinda), for a date last week, but she didn't say yes or no at that point. She said she had y, but then I said "we'll keep in touch." Several days pass by and I text her, asking "to...

19 yr old men ain't cool too tbh.

Why are you discussing this when the post is not about OP.

Nah don't worry about it. Glad that you are doing better now. Keep it up. I think one of the actual good things here is that good people are taking their time to help you out so keep it casual. Enjoy your summer dude!

Doing what now?

Or some 18 yr old incel trolling. It's just at 47 your priorities are so different than just chasing skirts. Somethings not right.

I haven't been to the east coast yet. Are the girls nice in Miami? Also I feel in Texas there is so much to do so not just girls, good people there whether you get laid/not get laid.

No the real question is how did he manage to be a virgin at 47.

Can you give us an update ?