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    Please translate girl speak for me

    "Thanks for the *invitation*, I'll let you know". Then maintain total silence until she replies with a valid response.
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    Cologne on Dates

    Keep it discreet. I often spray on my torso, beneath my shirt, so that diffusion is gradual and subtle. And the use of pheromones with cologne can also be a plus, but don't buy from the Internet vendors who promise to have women chasing you down the road, they are usually just fake products...
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    Am I friendzoned or is there a chance she might change her mind?

    She's probably with someone else, if not she is simply not attracted to you enough. So forget her and move on.
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    Boycott Gillette

    This advert has emerged in Spain, dubbed into Spanish, but with the same content and message. It has been heavily criticised in the press, even the left wing media calling it "victimisation of masculinity". Gillette have made a huge error of judgement, on a worldwide level. Let's hope that this...
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    Boycott Gillette

    Can anyone think of an advertising campaign within the past 10 years which was opposed to the political correctness of its era?
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    Married game

    My previous partner and I were together for just over 10 years. It was somewhat difficult at first as we both had strong characters and ideas, but as the years passed we synchronised and were more than happy. She passed away and obviously I was devastated. Years went by and after playing around...
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    Possible Divorce, Too late to change?

    Crazy women try to hide their craziness until they feel that they have hooked you. Women with sour characters seem to openly demonstrate their bitterness earlier on. In either case, what's important is that you don't have to live with it. Both types will make you feel miserable.
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    I actually approached a woman at my gym

    That was (partly*) true, a few centuries ago. Then history occured. And many of them emigrated to Spain / Europe, and viceversa. Some parts of certain cities in Spain now have higher concentrations of Latin Americans (Cuba, Venezuela, Colombia, Argentina, etc) than European Spanish. *Regarding...
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    I actually approached a woman at my gym

    I live in a country full of them. Have done for 30 years. Some play games, but the majority (in Spain at least), religious or not, are solid. I guess that in the US, Latinas might be different. But in Europe, both the Europeans and South) Central American immigrants are a good bet. Perhaps you...
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    I actually approached a woman at my gym

    The majority of both European Spanish / Italian and Latin American females are religiously polarised. These days, a marginal majority are atheist, but the remainder are devout, many to the point of being irritating.
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    Really struggling today with break up

    I felt this way about an ex once. We were together for about a year, but the relationship was both sexually and emotionally extremely intense. When we split I felt as if my world was turned upside down. I started doing other women, but I still couldn't get her out of my mind, I just wished I...
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    Caught girlfriend cheating just now.

    She was branch swinging to another guy. It isn't working out as good as she hoped, so she's keeping you on the scene as her fallback plan. Forget her. Literally. And don't waste your energy on bitterness or revenge.
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    For men 35+, where are you meeting the ladies?

    Walking my dog. I don't do OLD, I'm past the club phase of life, and I'm not really interested in the type of women who go to bars to hook up. I've yet to discover a more efficient, pleasurable form of meeting quality ladies.
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    How would you treat her?

    Why would she change? It's how she is. It's like expecting a dog to stop licking it's own b+lls because you don't approve of it.
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    Possible Divorce, Too late to change?

    She is unstable. Do not even consider maintaining a relationship with her. You cannot change or control such a person, so break it off. Your daughter will not benefit from growing up in this environment. Get some legal advice regarding custody and the financial implications of a divorce. Then...
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    Can women be in relationship with no drama?

    Some women create drama by default, no matter how you treat them or however you behave. Others don't. It's that simple. You can try to control a crazy one or you can just be patient until you filter out a rational one. This might sound rather simplistic, but the core problem isn't so complex.
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    How important is style?

    This depends upon your environment. I live in Spain but travel and work around Europe. Southern Europe is easy, whereas in Northern Europe, you will be judged by what you wear. I met my last 3 LTRs whilst wearing shorts, T shirt and open sandals. What is very important is that you feel confident...
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    Jaleousy

    Just laugh it off. If you see your partner flirting too much, just smile and hit her with "I didn't know that we were in an open relationship.... Cool!". Then go do your thing. Usually there will be one of two types of outcome. Either are better than feeling jealous and bitter.
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    “I Love you” and the razor’s edge

    Practical answer to the OP. What to do if a woman says "I Love You" first, and you don't yet feel it yourself, or don't want to let the guard down? This has always worked for me. Look her in the left eye, with a smile, and say "I've always believed that actions speak louder than words", then...
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