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  1. Pogejr

    Becoming Quantifiably Exceptional

    Good post. I agree with the metrics for money. I’m also planning to crack the top 5% this year. For muscles, I don’t think having a six pack is a suitable metric. Lots of scrawny guys have six packs or visible abs yet I don’t believe we’d qualify them as being exceptional in this category. I...
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    Need some advice...possibly want to move out...

    I immigrated to the US when I was 8 years old from an 3rd world country and was homeless for most of my childhood. I’m now 29 and in the top 10% of earners in this country. By 35 I plan on being in the top 1% of earners. I moved out from under my single mom at 17, when I moved to college and...
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    My cue to ask her out?

    It is obvious. Stop doubting yourself.
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    Starting bjj at 41

    I’ve trained and competed in Bjj for a few years. I’m in my late 20s but most of the guys I train with at my gym are around your age, and many people do start out at your age. I recommend first trying out a gym in the group classes to see if you like the coach and the intensity. The gym may...
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    New Year’s Eve ... new woman for me

    I went on a few dates with a girl that was slightly older than me (28 vs 24). She said she was going to a wedding one weekend and I made an off hand comment offering to go with her so she wouldn’t be there alone. She didn’t really respond so I dropped it. Turns out she did go by herself, but...
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    The Greatest Advice to Myself. [Signing off]

    This is great. Almost everything I know about working out and dieting came from years of trial and error in the gym. I agree with keeping it simple at first and making sure you stay consistent with working out. Fitness is a lifestyle and once you’re really in it, you’ll start to enjoy doing...
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    Anti intelectualism

    I traveled to Brazil for work a few months ago and something that really caught me off guard was how receptive the girls there were compared to the U.S. I think it has something to do with the abundance of attractive girls there (that are living in relative poverty by U.S. standards) and the...
  8. Pogejr

    People touching my head

    Maybe it’s a black thing but if someone touches my head (ESPECIALLY a dude) I’m throwing hands.
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    HB9 massage girl

    I say go for it bro. Nothing wrong with asking her out for drinks, and if she says no who cares? You can keep going there but I’m sure there are hundreds of other massage parlors in your city. Ignore the haters and live the life you wanna live.
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    Do you think this incel-tier man was able to get his super-hot wife because of "self-improvement" or because of Looks, MONEY & STATUS??

    It’s difficult to apply LMS to the ruler of a country but this is a fairly old story so we can actually see how this plays out. An update from the NYT. Jan. 7, 2019 HONG KONG — Malaysia’s king resigned on Sunday, becoming the first monarch to abdicate in the country’s history. The royal palace...
  11. Pogejr

    What do to when you want to hit on her during your first meet?

    I see your point, and I agree you’d probably never want to do anything I suggested to a woman in her 30s or beyond. Nothing against them, I love me some older ladies, but you do have to play it “smoother” with them. I also can’t deny what’s working for me. I’m 25, which is right around this...
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    What do to when you want to hit on her during your first meet?

    Consider that she’s also probably pretty nervous about meeting someone from tinder so just be cool. Have a good time and give off a vibe that you’re not really trying to impress her. A while back, I went on a date with a girl I met on tinder while I was in Paris for work. Asked her to show me...
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    What's the most important advice YOU can give to an 18 year old newbie?

    Read the DJ Bible. Lots of gold there that I always go back to when I need to reassess. The most important thing at your age is how you look (as opposed to money or status). That’s what most girls you’ll be interacting with care about. So workout, get a nice haircut and neat clothes and go out...
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    The Greatest Advice to Myself. [Signing off]

    Not sure if this video has been posted or you’ve seen this before, but this MMA fighter discusses how he works out more efficiently with Joe Rogan. His idea is to only workout at about 70% of your capacity but be consistent with it, meaning going to the gym every single day. This reduces the...
  15. Pogejr

    Continue gaming to keep a woman?

    You’re doing everything except responding to what I actually wrote. Instead of saying it’s all crap, why not explain why you think so. Might help me grow as a person if you did. Buddhist monks are very different from Christians. The meek will inherit the earth is a mistranslation of the Bible...
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    Continue gaming to keep a woman?

    I’ll list out what I wrote so it’s easier to digest Then maybe you can address it. If not, no worries I don’t really care and won’t spend more time trying to convince you. 1. Men should seek to overcome anger. What does this mean? Forgive, and don’t be afraid to speak up against evil. Jesus...
  17. Pogejr

    Continue gaming to keep a woman?

    Suppressing anger is not the same as overcoming it. Also, dismissing my ideas as the feminine imperative is a straw man. You actually didn’t argue against anything I said. But if you’re content with your anger then I wish you the best of luck.
  18. Pogejr

    Continue gaming to keep a woman?

    Sure, I guess you could say that. My take: Anger is not the way. You shouldn’t advocate anger. In the end, anger will only destroy you. Anger did not let us “carve out society out of the wilderness.” That’s a lie. Man’s intellect did that. Anger is meant to be overcome. First seek the kingdom...
  19. Pogejr

    She Tried to Disrespect me in my Place

    A devil’s threesome is gay sex with a witness.
  20. Pogejr

    Girl on Tinder asked me my height

    Nicely said. Man is forged in flames - years of doing what is uncomfortable and challenging. Don’t get bitter, get better. Jurgen Klopp, coach of Liverpool FC, is a perfect example of the right attitude to have in life. Be dominant, be assertive, work harder than anyone else, but also realize...
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