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In this thread I have seen lots of posts about how the women with cluster B are not very different than others and a man should act in a certain way with every women. The posts here are quiet irrelevant to the thread. The difference between who those encounter with Cluster B women or not, lies...

I met my BPD-ex, after 6 months of my previous relationship which lasted for about 3 years. Actually as soon as I met her I was over my previous ex. Usually takes me around 6 months to get over my breakups as an average.

How long did it take for you to feel better after a break-up with your BPD? It has been 1 month of NC and I still seem to be in depression, ptsd. I still see her in my dreams almost every night. For instance last week was good approached 2 girls at day game got their contacts, although 1 of...

Yeah I totally get what you are saying but as I realized that I cannot help but clicking on her profile as unfollowing alone is not enough, I've decided to unfriend her. At this point I cannot care less if my BPD ex has power on me. She already has it. She carries on with her life as if nothing...

Day 31 Only today after 2 months of breakup and 31 days of NC, I had the courage to unfriend her on Facebook after seeing who she had become friends with. It still stings badly. I realize that NC include not cheking her social media. Hope one day i wil be able to look at this posts and smile.

You could find a good discussion about cluster b and women with bpd.

As the time passes by I came to realization that the biggest red flag was the object-constancy. I was well aware of her attachment issue I even confronted her about it and she admit it. The moment I was out of her sight physically she was becoming anxious. This lead to sabotaging our...

Where do we draw the line on taking responsability after a break-up with a BPD girl? All these push-pull made my frame destroyed in front of my eyes. I was afraid of losing her and wanting to be her side with her issues. To learn the proper lessons how much of the blame I need to take on my...

Day 24 I'm still under the FOG, as my BPD-ex lost her dad and told me leave her alone while I was showing support over the phone. Then she told me to leave her alone. This was the last conversation we had. I still want her to be good and wish her a well-being. Despite all the insults...

Plus many people here know that the girls they dated have actually been diagnosed with BPD. The experience with BPD is something on its own not just simple bi.chin' about a random a bit off girl.

In my case the raging started when you get too close, once almost got my nose broken.

Ask her if she is BPD lol. For me the biggest giveaways during the start; -Mommy issues, many of us confuse that with dad issues but most of the women can get over that but mom issues are nearly impossible to get over. -Black and white thinking -Extreme love bombing -Claimed date-rape cases...

Dude, I was one of the guys who DM'ed you about the BPD. Thanks for opening up this thread. I was gonna ask you how and after how long time did you get over the great fun times with those?

Well. Before the plate phase I always suggest "self-evalutation". Also, you will constantly compare the plates with the ex. The image of the ex will probably much better than the plate. Have you read some books? Such as the rational male?

Thank you. During the devauling phase. I had a dream. She was screaming and yelling at me, calling me names. Me not knowing what to do. In the dream my phone rang. It was her, in her idealizing phase saying how much she loves me and misses me. And the devaluing one started screaming at me...

I haven't blocked her after the break-up if I do it now, will it show that I'm butthurt? or am i just bargaining? This drug is very powerful.

Day 21, We are still friends on FB. Do not have the balls to unfriend her yet. Eventhough my gut feeling says that I might see something that might hurt me. Shall I unfriend her? Three weeks ago, I broke NC contact and spent 2 great days but later she said she wants to be left alone. Ps...