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  1. GrowingPains

    So like... relationships, right...

    Since mid 2018 when I found the Rational Male and this site... I've adopted the 'date multiple women and let her push for exclusivity' mentality. I'd say things have been working out quite well. I tried to count a little while ago and I've been intimate with ~15, probably kissed two handfuls...
  2. GrowingPains

    A field report of sorts

    I matched with this girl on tinder that I had already met before. It was about a year ago, I got invited to a party with the rowing team and ended up meeting her. We talked for a little bit on the couch and I got her number. This was back when I was still new to talking to women. Texted her to...
  3. GrowingPains

    Good luck, gentlemen.

    Improve yourself financially, socially, and internally. Identify your weaknesses in life by putting yourself through the fire and sorting out the demons that arise in the heat of battle. Identify those weaknesses and annihilate them. Be mindful. Be brave. Be consistent even when you cannot...
  4. GrowingPains

    Let’s Talk About Sex: A guide to keep 'em coming back

    Gonna dump some thoughts about how to sex the ladies in here. Not organized. Just going for it. This ones for the fellas that want her to keep coming back and enjoy seeing her squirm, taking it from her and then giving it to her harder. Damn we giving away tips already, let’s get right in. When...
  5. GrowingPains

    Got flaked on..

    But it's not the end of the world. Of course I was looking forward to it. A sexy, curvy Italian chick who's fun and sucks d!ck like a champ. Said she wasn't feeling like hanging out tonight 1 hour before. I haven't had a flake before, so I zoomed over to trusty dusty SoSuave. I was curious was...
  6. GrowingPains

    Testosterone & Nutrition advice

    Sup dudes, From time to time I see some advice about getting testosterone up. "Eat keto, fast, do this.. do that..". And I used to be really heavy into the war on carbs and fasting. But the most frustrating thing I found with the nutrition advice out there is that most of it is given by gurus...
  7. GrowingPains

    Journal: Seeking strong inner game

    This topic has come and go in my mind a lot recently: how do I achieve strong inner game? Is it by getting options and knowing that I'm desires? No, this has to be false inner game. Which means my inner game is not strong yet. I know this because I am still worried about whether my current...
  8. GrowingPains

    A simple OLD strategy

    Get some plates IRL. At least two. Then you'll walk around feeling like the man. And it'll show. I've noticed people look at me differently. Or maybe I perceive it differently because I actually feel like I'm the man. It's like before I knew I was but having plates externally validates that...
  9. GrowingPains

    Being muscular

    I've put on about 10-15 lbs lately. Im still lean, nothing crazy. Probably like 12% bodyfat idk I just know I still look athletic and my abs show. 195 lbs, 6'1''. And the ladies, at least the two I'm seeing right now, love it. I've gotten comments in the past like "this is a great view of...
  10. GrowingPains

    She called me 'bro'..

    Fellas. Hit a girl up to hang this weekend. I said something to the effect of "Hey armed and dangerous (she's did MMA in high school). When are you free this weekend? There's some cool street festivals near you, we can hit them up". She responds "where at bro". My friend says to just not...
  11. GrowingPains

    Smoove move

    Yo... Having an Alexa or whatever voice-activated speaker would be so smooth. Imagine walking into your apartment with a girl. Only lights that are on are the stove light and a low, warm lamp light in your room. You light a candle. While you're getting her a drink you say: "Alexa, play 007."...
  12. GrowingPains

    The conflicting voices in my head..

    Got a date tonight. Also got a lot of work to do. And I'm gonna get that work done. So this voice tells me, go on the date. Give it an hour and go back to work. The other voice is like 'but what if she wants to fvck.. you can't pass that up'. It's not like I'm on a dry steak or anything, I've...
  13. GrowingPains

    Texting response time

    I usually don't text and keep it to logistics. In this particular instance, she texted me first. Which is good, it potentially indicates some level of interest. I responded an hour or so later, I was working. That was in the afternoon/evening idk I don't remember. She responds this afternoon...
  14. GrowingPains

    The importance of a bro

    For a while I couldn't go out without being immensely focused on pulling a chick. If I went to a bar, that was my mission. I wanted to leave with a curvy, promiscuous chick that would blow my brains out. And I still do. But the difference between tonight and all the previous times I went out...
  15. GrowingPains

    'She doesn't see you as alpha'

    Someone said something to this ^ effect in another thread I posted. Their misunderstanding was that I had this girl in bed and didn't do anything with her. But something similar to what they thought happened today. I went for coffee with this girl, we were having a good time. She's a cool...
  16. GrowingPains

    Should I reach out again?

    Whashannin' Last weekend I went out with a girl I had gone on 2 dates before. Between the 2nd and 3rd date there was about a month of time because she said she didn't think we were a good fit for each other. She wasn't making it easy to chat on the phone or meet up to explain why she felt that...
  17. GrowingPains

    Why do I feel like I always need to pull

    Went out with my friends tonight. I have been realizing that I always feel that I need to end up with a girl or else the night isn't a success. In fact, I even told my friend this last time when I was out with him. I envy those that don't care. They can have a good time without approaching...
  18. GrowingPains

    Telling her LJBF

    So I went on a date last night. It was the kind of date you go on because... Well the girl seems fvckable, ykno? But you don't wanna date this chick. I just needed my needs met, yagetme. So she's .. a 5.64, I'd say. Yeah I know, rating is accurate af. Significant figures 'n sh!t. It comes with...
  19. GrowingPains

    "Caroline, you're the reason for the word 'b!tch'... b!tch..."

    Just wanna remind you fellas to have some self respect out here. When they don't come correct, don't be acting like a simp and letting her walk all over you. Girl from bumble who I couldn't link up with immediately because my family is in town. I hit her up just now about next weekend, she...
  20. GrowingPains

    Gotta let this one go...

    Gentlemen, 'tis a bitter sweet moment where I can write a post such as this. It's a sign that I've improved. But at the same time, it means I have to let a plate go. Oh well, sh!t breaks. So I've seen this girl twice. Once before I went to Europe. And yesterday. She is nice. Opens up about...
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