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Robert Cialdini wrote a classic marketing book, "Influence: The sciene of persuasion". In it, he wrote about 6 primary laws of influence. Commitment and consistency. People have a deep desire to appear consistent with previous actions that they've taken. Many top sales people get their client...

I don't believe the primary factor for women is to find a guy that's "socially pleasing". She wants to find a guy that turns her on. Women feel gut level attraction to guys who do certain things (DJ bible) She doesn't think to herself logically, "oh, there's a jerk, he doesn't care about...

On the subject of older guys and younger girls, I only have one comment: Tonight at the Oscars, Michael Douglas and Catherine Zeta Jones. She looked absolutely spectacular. Michael Douglas must be the happiest man in the world, bar none.

The road to self improvement is filled with loneliness unfortunately. I've completely transformed myself in the last few years and it seems like the people I use to know are still stuck in the same position they were in. Tony Robbins has this great saying, "who you spend time with is who you...

On the subject of the mass media in the US: Politicians often criticize foreign governments over restricted state owned media. For example, in the middle east. Yet, are we really much better off? Look at what the FCC has done through deregulation over the past few decades. Only a handful...

This is a fascinating set of questions: The main culprit behind the development of more girly guys and more masculine women is the industrial revolution. Men and women for thousands of years had very defined roles. The men were tough and strong. They went out and hunted, fought, protected...

The thing that was getting me incredibly down was seeing my business ventures just not materializing and having a sense of almost being back at square one. Frustration reaching a level I've never felt before. All the Tony Robbins techniques, NLP, breathing techniques, meditation, reading a great...

What do you guys do to snap yourself out of a depressed and completely blah state of mind. Where you don't feel like meeting anyone or really having alot of fun. I don't like being in that kind of state, but sometimes the harder you try to snap yourself out of it, the worst it gets. Any...

Have you ever seen guys like Ross Jeffries or Mystery in action? They are not GQ models. I went to a seminar of Ross's one time and he looked like an older version of Dustin Diamond (Skreetch) from Saved by the Bell. These guys and many of the guys on asf are pulling women through game first...

Rupeo, It could be alot worst. Many 25 year old guys don't have a job or a loft. It sounds like you could do very well with a great conversation and using humor with her. Study some of the DJ bible. You don't have to remember all of it, but even if you use 20% of it, you're ahead of most...

Almost every young white girl I've known has at least been open to the idea of trying another women (even 100% straight women). But why? One explanation could be in the decline of the white western male. Womens lib, feminism, single moms, and an entire culture that's programmed guys to be...

Also, a few more comments about latina women: As a very broad stereotype, they tend to party more than the average white, asian or even black girl. I don't really know why, but I've seen it constantly. Latinas slightly down in the looks dept (say 6.5, still cute) can be really cool. They...

Latina women in so cali are very tough for the average looking white guy (even a guy with some game!). The hot latinas, the ones wearing tight ass jeans, tight shirts, and with luscious bodies need a guy with massive b@lls. You can try the friend approach first. This can melt their cold...

Outstanding posts guys. I don't think it was looks per se. I knew many guys who looked a hell of a lot worst than I did (deep acne scars, 300 lb guys who were 5"7, etc) who had fun with women. It all comes down to your mindset. For me, I had many beliefs like, I'm too nice, I'm too clingy...

Even after having success with women, I feel like I still have alot of deep emotional wounds from my past. Maybe its my mind just making stuff up, but it seems very real. For basically 7 years of my young adult life (from 16-23), things were very black in terms of confidence, self esteem and...

Jon E, It sounds too overly simplistic, but girls never tell you the truth about what they want in a guy. They like "a sense of humor", they like walks on the beach and candle lite dinners. Have you ever read an online personal ad looking for a guy with the description: "Hi, I'm...

It sounds like she is too innocent to fool around with another guy. If she was a virgin at 27, and it took you months to get to 1st base, and you were only her 2nd boyfriend, that doesn't sound like the kind of girl that would easily be seduced by another guy. She sounds very traditional and...

Me: Didn't you just wear that?? (she'll probably slap you in the arm)

It may sound overly simplistic, but I think anyone who wants it bad enough can get out of a big rut. I didn't believe that during many of the ruts I've been in before. But, if you really want to change bad enough, you can. You reach this level of saying to yourself..."not another day of this!!"...

Online is fun for some laughs, but seriously, you've got to get out and met women in real life. There is no substitute. The experience you'd get talking to a girl you're completely un interested in is far more valuable than any online hottie. Tonight for example, it was raining, nothing was...