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    Thinking about getting into cybersecurity

    I've been looking for a career that could bring me new opportunities and perhaps expand some of my life experiences. I've been looking into cybersecurity and there is one top rate bachelor degree program I've been looking at. It's something I could do relatively quickly, assuming everything...
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    What men should understand about attention seeking women (rant)

    So, the other night I created a thread about an experience I had with an attention ***** at the gym that I had the misfortune of crossing paths with. Many of the posters seem to have 0 concept of what attention whoring is, why women do this, etc. I'm here to fill you guys in, hopefully there may...
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    Beware the attention *****, the female equivalent of creepiness (story time)

    A couple weeks ago something popped up that reminded me of a woman I had unfortunately crossed paths with. I had a conversation with @SW15 about this particular woman. When we talk about creepy behavior from men it's often from a place where the man is socially mis calibrated in some way...
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    Have any of you had unexplainable bad gut feelings about people you meet?

    I was reflecting upon some intuitive feelings and experiences I've had in my life and this is something that I've wondered if others have these as well. I've had a handful of these experiences where I just cannot explain these feelings, but it's like a sick to your stomach feeling that is a...
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    Youtube short that sums up todays' dating market

    This short popped up into my youtube feed the other day and it filled me up with laughter lol. While it's impossible to specifically quantify, the point that the guy made was that in previous generations the average man had to put in substantially less work in order to acquire a woman that was...
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    The current dating market and how I see this century playing out

    I've been noticing a trend on youtube where a lot of channels are popping up that are dedicated to the issues that young men are facing in the current dating market. I've also noticed that these channels are attracting a lot of attention, something you can see with their view counts, and this...
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    Why women date phoneys, con men, etc. (rant)

    I've been seeing a lot of threads lately on here talking about the black pill, self improvement, etc. I've been posting on here about how the "self improvement" advice of bettering your physique, career, money, etc. is really not that big of a game changer for the vast majority of men. Telling...
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    The issue with telling men to work on self improvement

    I've been seeing an interesting trend with mainstream media and youtube, where there is a lot of content recently discussing the issues that young men are experiencing with the modern dating market. There was one piece on CNN saying that over 60% of men were single while around 1/3 women were in...
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    I really need some help/input with a personal issue right now

    I haven't posted a thread on here in a while, honestly been pretty busy and overall doing well in my life. The beginning of the year, around late February/Early March, I had a long time gym friend that ended up moving and I honestly didn't really have anyone to talk to. I don't have any other...
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    How to open up women at grocery store/"day game"?

    Yesterday I was at Costco, I shop their regularly for a good portion of my groceries. Anyway, it was pretty busy and when I first walked in I noticed this very attractive woman that was somewhere around my age, early 20s to late 30s, that had amazing hips and ass and was very pretty. I didn't...
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    Has anyone here lived in Vegas?

    There have been several things that have popped up in my life and it's looking like I may seriously be considering a change. I was considering the Phoenix metro area but it's just so crowded there and with all of the traffic and bustling around it reminds me of where I grew up, which is the...
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    Money/saving addiction and feeling I'm losing my fire, need input. (successful people)

    I've had an enormous amount of financial success over the past couple years, especially since 2021. My investments have taken off and I'm rapidly seeing ever increasing results from all of my time, energy and resources that I've put into this. I've been comfortable for quite a long time but...
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    I need some help with a place I'm at right now

    I've been totally out of the game for well over 2 years now, as from around 2016/17 through 2019 I was experiencing nothing but rejection, flakiness, etc. and eventually gave up for the sake of my mental health. I've posted about this on here before and I was having a ton of issues with anger...
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    Out of the game for over 2 years and don't feel like going back

    It's been well over 2 years since I've approached a woman, let alone actually went on a date with one. The last date I had was sometime around June of 2019. I was having nothing but bad experiences that were ruining my self esteem/confidence and my mental health was beginning to suffer. I had...
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    Women dating down, how are you supposed to feel?

    Over the past few years I've had something interesting that I picked up on with women I had asked out, dated, etc., that ended up rejecting me. At the time I'd feel really annoyed with these rejections, which is normal, but what would make it worse was that I'd always see these women date men...
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    Need some advice about responsible enjoyment of vices

    Earlier this evening I went to play poker at a casino in my area, $1-$2 no limit Texas Hold 'em. I originally went with $200 but when I sat down and cashed in I decided to stick with just $100 to play with. I had the intention of just using this as a form of entertainment and wasn't sitting...
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    The problem I have with self improvement (rant)

    It's pretty well understood that most men should seek to better themselves in a variety of ways (career, finances, fitness, etc.). However, most men ultimately still are within an averageish range for most of these traits and really don't stand out all that much. However, for some men they are...
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    What I've learned from being out of the game for over 2 years (rant)

    It's been over 2 years since I've had a real date or even asked a woman out. From 2017 through the first half of 2019 I was having nothing but bad experiences that were ruining my self esteem and it was getting to the point where it was having an affect on my mental health and overall well...
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    Being around unattractive men increase chance of rejection?

    I was thinking about this and wasn't entirely sure, though I feel there is some truth to this depending upon context. A few examples and specific set of circumstances If you were out with a friend, who is perhaps unattractive or very awkward, does that ruin your chances with women? Say you go...
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    I've underestimated how picky women are (rant)

    I've long been aware that women in general today are picky in regards to the men they go for but it was far worse than I thought originally. I totally get why an attractive woman wouldn't go for a man who is obese, has poor hygiene, etc. However, I've also seen women have these ridiculous...
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