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Girl I’ve been seeing 2 months now. Regular weekly or 2x weekly dates, been intimate and she initiates texts more often than I do. Hinting at future dates, wanting to text more between dates, etc. But randomly, like once a week, she takes at least a full 24 hours to respond. She has positive...

Seeing this one girl for over a month now. Going well so far, been intimate several times, see each other about once a week or maybe slightly more. Initially we both discussed how we aren’t the best at texting, and early on she would take several hours to half a day to respond, which has...

I had to cancel a date today. It was a 2nd date for apps and drinks/pool afterward. Turns out I had a super long work day and stomach issues all day - bottom line is I don’t feel like I can be 100% present /in the moment in the date, so I cancelled and offered her to pick a day next week if...

One of my current plates (not the one I posted about recently), is showing early signs of pullback. So I am doing the same, basically going “no contact light”, where I won’t initiate contact unless she does and will keep myself busy with other women and my own life/goals, etc. Just curious...

Mind you, this isn’t a prospect. In this example, a girl you’ve gotten physical with more than once and initiates contact/date ideas herself too. Also it’s not like I’m complimenting her directly - it’s more when I wish her a good work day or fun at a family gathering, etc or tell her I have a...

So one of my best mates has a problem. His GF of 2 years cheated on him about 5 months back. Poor guy, I personally never saw it coming but oh well. Today he calls me on my lunch break. He found out she’s dating some new guy and he tells me he feels like messaging this dude on IG outing her as...

Hi Everyone, Before getting into it. Please save any “you were being a beta male/no frame, etc” comments. I’ve thought about those enough and I promise you, I’m not that person. Im not Mr Niceguy. I’ve been around long enough and dated long enough to know better... Long story short, my...

Met a girl for a first date, we met on bumble. Date went well, good convo, similar interests. She texted me within a hour of the date ending, thanking me for such a fun date. Good sign. We have a second date lined up for this weekend. I don’t really plan to text her at all, maybe a simple...

I’ve been through it before - did not get back together and did not pick her up as a plate /fwb. Has anyone here been cheated on and actually gotten back with the girl who cheated on you? If so, why? And

For two scenarios: Would you give a woman the time of day for closure? Meaning they want to talk about the relationship and feel "good" about how it ends. I know it's mostly to serve their own agenda and not feel bad or guilty about what they've done. So, in the following do you give closure...

Both for plates and LTRs: How often do you hang back and allow your woman to initiate sex with you, rather than generally being the one to initiate / begin touching that leads to 1st/2nd/3rd base and finally having sex? Do you find yourself more commonly initiating than your woman? I assume...

If in an LTR (6+months, etc.), living together or just seeing one another a few times weekly, what are some ways to keep the excitement and “spark” alive? Moreso, if you start to sense a fade in excitement, whether within yourself or your partner, what strategies can you use to keep it fresh...

Scenario 1: You don’t live together, see one another 1-3x weekly. Scenario 2: You do live together How often are you having sex in a happy/healthy relationship? One friend of mine lives with his wife and they have sex all the time. Another friend lives with his fiancé but they do not have sex...

Has anyone noticed a slight dip/decrease in your woman’s sex drive after they begin taking BC pills? If so, how do you navigate this? Where leading up to her starting her pills it was sex all the time, then after it decreases to average once per day at most? Obviously I’m not gonna dump her...

She said she wasn’t sure what she was up to this evening and her friend “Jane” was actually in town this evening. I happened to be friends with “Jane” on Facebook and saw she posted publicly that she would be at XYZ bar tonight working, which is not in town. What should I do? I don’t suspect...

Been seeing a lady for a month or so. Roughly 1-2 times weekly and usually lots of sex when together. Between dates she often texts me throughout the day and she initiates at least 75% of the time. I don’t text tooo much, just enough to not be cold and I make plans for next dates, etc. One...

Seeing a girl for close to a month - started out once weekly, currently about twice weekly. Lots of sex, very passionate, shared interests, etc - I dig her. Our second date she told me she was married at 20 but has been separated for a few years- not a big deal I figured. I don’t care if a girl...

What are some common examples/what exactly are they? How do they differ in strangers vs someone you already know?

What techniques or things do you practice for this? Ive found that occasionally, I lose touch with it. Specifically if things with a girl turn sour. For example, the other day I cut things off with a plate who started showing me her true side (needy, very selfish, borderline disrespectful at...

Not in a bad way. Teasing, joking, light name calling - seemingly normal things, to me, in the early stages of a potential relationship and hooking up together. What isnt normal is that lately it is almost CONSTANT. Sometimes text, sometimes in-person. Nothing ever insulting or rejecting to me...