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This is over analysis of my situation with a lot of “dot connecting” that simply means isn’t there. Why would I cut things off if we are still going out and hooking up regularly? That is super defeatist - and throwing something away for the sake of pride without knowing the facts. Say what you...

Thank you, this is what I plan on doing. I won’t be pushing any envelopes or pressuring at all. In regards to me saying “communication is important” it was a sidebar to a different conversation where she brought up what she values in friendships. It wasn’t me making a deliberate point to single...

I understand it’s entirely possible she may be seeing other people as well - I am too so who cares about that. She has a history of sexual abuse/deeper issues that she’s shared with me before. And how that impacts her ability to successfully date people and results in hesitancy. My guess is...

The more that she pulls this 24 hour response sh*t the more I dislike the idea of continuing seeing her. A man’s time is best spent with a woman who values that time and is deserving of it. This behavior is annoying and childish. I honestly don’t care how busy or “stressed” your week is, it...

Bro, exactly. You call a girl these days and she simply won’t answer, unless you have massive rapport with her and are exclusive. You look 10x more needy calling a girl in 2023 than simply texting her to setup a date. The trend continues. Full day to respond, still giving positive responses and...

She’s been doing the 24 hours to reply thing since day 1. It actually used to be longer during the 1st/2nd date weeks but has shortened up dramatically. Oddly enough she did very recently hit me up again. This time talking about plans for our next meet up. Likely a combo of still going on other...

Sorry for not clarifying. By “intimate” I meant that we have hooked up before. Usually on every date now since date 3. Thought that was sufficient to label it that way, but apparently not

Girl I’ve been seeing 2 months now. Regular weekly or 2x weekly dates, been intimate and she initiates texts more often than I do. Hinting at future dates, wanting to text more between dates, etc. But randomly, like once a week, she takes at least a full 24 hours to respond. She has positive...

My thoughts too, it’s not a bad thing. Plus if she starts to act squirrelly over my “text conversation skills” then honestly that would be annoying enough to just drop her. It’s not like she’s some expert text messaging conversationalist herself. So, yeah I will text a little more here and...

You’ve become the weak minded cheating woman who gets talked about in this thread. You’d do anything to not feel a shred of guilt and the fact you’ve been cheating for months and still claim to “love” your girlfriend is proof. Hate to see it. This kind of behavior is really repulsive IMO. Be a...

Seeing this one girl for over a month now. Going well so far, been intimate several times, see each other about once a week or maybe slightly more. Initially we both discussed how we aren’t the best at texting, and early on she would take several hours to half a day to respond, which has...

My thoughts exactly. She been texting me today so I’m not worried

I guess not every guy wants to be the 30+ year old creep according her friends? But if that’s what you like, then sounds like you’re doing ok at it. I just don’t see 21 year olds as a high value woman, but that’s my personal opinion.

Been there, done that. Wish I would have bailed sooner. It’s not right to be in the dark, especially if you are exclusive with her in your mind. Sure, early on within the first year I get it - but after a while that’s just not cool. It’s really kinda shady - almost like a back door for her to...

Disagree - that would probably be like 10-20% of girls out there. Why would you put your eggs in that basket with such low odds. Also aside physical intimacy, you get nothing in return. They’ll never take you as a serious option in their lives - unless you only want that which I understand many do.

I’d bet almost every dollar I own that the low success rate is due to the fact you’re dating women who are basically children (not literally, but mentally and emotionally). Screw that, man - I know women go downhill at a point but I’ve had awesome success lately with older women, 27-35. I’m 32...

Yikes, sorry man. Sounds like it’s time to wash your hands of this. Seems like you know what’s acceptable and what’s not - good for you. Sorry you had to deal with that, just don’t give in after a couple weeks and take her back.

Fair question. I don’t fear losing her at all, she isn’t the only girl I’m seeing. I feel guilty because I know how it feels to be on the other side of this and get cancelled on. I also feel guilty because I hate making plans only to cancel on them for personal reasons. And I’m sure you’re...

I had to cancel a date today. It was a 2nd date for apps and drinks/pool afterward. Turns out I had a super long work day and stomach issues all day - bottom line is I don’t feel like I can be 100% present /in the moment in the date, so I cancelled and offered her to pick a day next week if...

And how does one handle the date next week? Hit her up a couple days before to tell her when to be ready?