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Thanks gang! Love all the honest comments. Really good stuff to think about. Have been laying low the last few days, taking care of myself. Reached out to an old FWB from a few months ago and started spinning one new plate. Also connected with some regular social world friends who I've been...

Y'all are making good sense! I feel like I'm in a good place now and yes, with much better perspective!

Totally agree with all of you! You guys a great. Great dose of reality. And soulforge, the answer to those questions is HELL NO! Just have to move on. The sex was great, but there's great sex elsewhere too.

Yeah, she can file whatever charges she wants. Whether or not it goes anywhere is another story.

Deep down I know this relationship won’t work and it really does need to end. The way she “broke up” really was the best way to end things. There’s no going back to the way things were. I just need a clean break. No BS.

Yep. Totally agree with you soulforge. Expecting her to play the "let's still be friends" card any minute now.

This. This right here exactly. Quit with the mixed messages and say it to me straight up, or keep quiet.

I like that plan but no one is having sex tonight. She goes to sleep early and is already in bed and lives an hour away. And all this happened over a 12 hour period today so there were plenty of gaps in my responses. And if I showed my hand I really don't give a ****. This whole thing just needs...

Thanks man. These are good responses. Really helping me get my plan together. I feel good about it now. I know it will never be the same with her but if I can get her to side chick status I'd be pretty satisfied. It really is the best sex I've ever had (and I'm 42 and have been around the block...

Yeah, man good call. I just texted her and basically told her "I can't tell if we actually broke up or not so enough of the bull****, let's meet up and talk it over like adults." Then made a dig about how it gives her an excuse to see me again. If she says no to a meeting then I know it's...

Thanks for the response. I kind of just want clarification from her....does she want to be with me or not? Did she really dump me or not? Because I honestly can't tell. She almost acting like Monday never happened. Maybe I should break my silence and just ask her? We were seriously in love but...

Need some help on this one…..Girl vague-dumped me on Monday morning first thing, over text, by saying “I’m not good enough for you. I can’t drag you into my drama. You deserve better, etc” I asked if she was sure and she said she didn’t know. So I told her we should talk face to face and I’d be...

Day 2 (Part III) Damn this girl. Making it hard for me!! Blows up my phone with "Hello?" "Ok fine...." type **** because I wasn't responding to anything. Then asks me a legit question about something unresolved from last week that was fairly important. I debated ignoring this but realized not...

Day 2 (Part II) Not 10 minutes after I wrote that post she sent me a text saying she just read a recent article that I wrote and really liked it. She had to go out of her way to get this article, and had no idea it was even on my blog, which means she consciously visited my blog which means she...

Day 2 More than 48 hours in and it's very, very tough to hold off on contacting her, especially since just yesterday she sent me an "I miss you!!" text. I have been so tempted to reply to it but don't really know what to say and know it will only lead into a spiral that takes me nowhere. I'm...

Well yeah, if a girl is insisting you do something you're not comfortable doing then you are not compatible and should part ways if you can't find a compromise. I've had girls wanting to do weird **** I wasn't into (one girl wanted me to get full body painted and do a photoshoot with her). I...

True. It's not about licking butt though. It's about not being boring. As long as SHE thinks he's not boring he should be good to go. But she does think he's boring, so something needs to change otherwise bye-bye.

Pretty much exactly what happened to me. Dated girl for 9 months. Had sex so many times I lost count. It was casual and fun for so long. Then I started staying over at her place every now and then. We fell in love. I bought her gifts. We made plans to take vacations together. All was good...

devilkingx2 Well said. Girls like guys who are a bit naughty and play dirty. It allows them to feel like they're naughty and dirty without actually being naughty and dirty. YOU'RE the bad boy, not them. And they love it because they'll want to know what else you're into and you can keep them...

Cool. I've always had fun doing it. If she asks you to do it and you do it, that's one thing. But if you just take it, that's something else.