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for anyone still reading this thread. 2 years later and following all the back and forth - custody battles - trying again - discussions etc This is what happened… ^^^

i am better my friend. Still have the issues but from a different perspective now. I fought through the legal system. And I now have regular time with my daughter 2x per week minimum overnight. my advice is fight for your child - never give up. remove the power play by using the law and give...

What’s up all. Apologies for chiming back in on this one but have been some developments. Been nearly a month now since my daughters mum has this new partner. He has met my daughter and frequently spends time around the place - when I go to pick her up I see his car there - he still has not...

Really appreciate each and every one of you and your responses, I have followed many of you who have responded for a number of years and really appreciate the constructive feedback. I will take onboard all of the advice given and apply it. my main priority is ensuring my daughter doesn’t...

Kind words mate and reassuring to hear this. I will ensure she knows just how much I love her each time we are together - I always would have done anyway

I understand this approach - I've already spent £4000 on the previous case (which tbf i won) But this is more from a personal perspective. thanks for your response.

Hi All, I made a decision with myself to only use this place when necessary for the advice you guys give, I am in need right now. Ex - Daughters mum, told me that this week she will be introducing her new partner to my child - my daughter is 18 months old. I am feeling a wave of emotion and I...

This is a very valid response, and deep down - I know this is the mentality I should be taking, she has pulled me from pillar to post and realistically doesn't deserve an ounce of my time. One thing I will learn from this and i hope somebody will take away from this thread is that "ALWAYS...

Mum and Dad still together - very self absorbed though - spent a lot of time working away and my ex was left to grow up with grandma and grandad majority of the time, mum and dad middle class - very big drinkers (would say alcoholics) have a very strong relationship but that is all they see -...

Not even 2 days Few missed Facetime calls last night - a couple of messages "Had some really positive news yesterday in regard to my housing application, I know you didn't want me to call but I really wanted to share it with you, you were the first person I wanted to call, it does after all...

Valid point mate and duly noted.

Great post @AttackFormation Deep down this is the vibe i get from this women, the 'what i thought was kind' comments that she made such as - I don't want to see you with anyone else - I am going to miss talking to you every day - who knows if we are consistent with out daughter - what could...

Interesting to see a couple of you guys mention that the spark dies down, and i think its a very realistic thing to acknowledge, the honeymoon phase doesn't last forever, but its up to those who want to fight for each other that truly stand the test of time. Thanks for your insight fruitbat. I...

Really appreciate that mate. Very sound advice and i can resonate with that - bitter pill to swallow - but you are right. I am excited for the future, for sure. But, right now it seems a little way away. I look forward to life taking a new meaning. In respect of fighting for my child, there...

This is very interesting and true.

Thanks for the responses all. Break up was a culmination of things really, we weren't getting along and struggling with the pandemic soon after having a newborn baby - we separated 4 months after our daughter was born, she was living in her million pound house with mommy and daddy funding her...

What's up all. Been a long time since I've posted on here, life has been good, wouldn't be back unless absolutely necessary but I'm in a bit of a drum.... Long story short, me and my daughters mum split almost 12 months ago, the first 6 months after this was a traumatic time, I lost my home -...

Congrats, Atom. Thanks for the many years of wisdom.

As a man who has been in this situation, many, many, times. One piece of advice.. - DO NOT DO IT

What if you have kids? What's the rule surrounding No Contact then?