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UPDATE: gave it 2 weeks, then invited her over for dinner, escalated early- ended up having sex before dinner still zero initiation from her- not much of a texter- well neither am I really haha also she didn't stay the night- had to get up early

No, she caught covid so I didn't bother trying to set anything up weekend just been.

cheers for the feedback everyone- even if some of it is brutal it's what I need to hear It is true, girls that have made it easy for me had high interest from the start. Far less effort involved and flirting/escalation feels natural. I'm weighing up either messaging and saying the chemistry...

Yeah I'm usually far more flirty an better at creating physical contact etc. I think I'm just tired of this city- maybe need a fresh start somewhere new

Yeah, a place, but not my own- lowkey got annoying housemates.

Girl I met on OLD. 1st date was just drinks. 2nd date a small hike- at this point after failing to escalate I thought nah this is low interest. Waited a week- set up a date- bowling & drinks- instant yes keen. Date was decent- made out at the end(why did I wait till the end). Next date a movie...

Yeah I agree. I hate to admit it but I kind of pin my own troubles on this- didn't lack a father- lacked a strong masculine authoritative father ( I do love and respect my dad, he is a good man, just a bit of a push over and not a decision maker). Mum was the one who disciplined us ad basically...

How would you respond to a girl saying "do you think this could be something more?" context: -been dating for just over a month -you are both a little bit drunk and in bed -you would like exclusivity with this girl Also how would you respond if you are unsure if you want exclusivity?

update: NEXT. In short she gave vague answers when I was trying to set up the logistics. Didn't give a counter offer or real excuse. Likely had minimal interest all along and dropped to low within a few days. Literally and brutally just said: "bye" hahaha **** never had that before. Trying...

thanks, I knew this but needed to hear it. missed opportunity, I will take the next one. I must stop ignoring these hints and escalate. Varied opinion on the movie thing I see, hmm...

Update: So communication from her slowed a bit and I ignored her obviously attention seeking snaps. I had a free Saturday decided to give her a last shot. I went against the advice of another bar date, and invited her on a bush walk. The place is cool and it was a nice day for it. Also I think...

Update: she flaked on the 2nd 'date' I ignored for a couple days, but she has continued to 'snap' me with more 'wyd?''s my incling is she's doing this for attention- maybe doesn't know many people here yet. what should I be responding to these? Like the last one was late on Monday night haha...

hmm I was thinking to be sexual in any environment, but obviously some are better than others. not many good places to go around here haha. got any suggestions?maybe just invite her over or myself to hers....

why so?

yeah I wouldn't know haha

Girl from tinder, new to the area decent banter, she asked for my snapchat, we switched to that.The exchanges are lighthearted/fun. a friday I finished work early i hit her up to go out, with not much notice haha, she was busy, said can we take a 'raincheck'. I say sure, proceeded to not...

So a girl I had had sex with a couple times turned down my suggestion of me coming over(can't remember her reason, but said "defs another time though" which I take as her just trying to be nice), I asked her pretty late at night so it definitely came off as a booty call. We communicate mainly...

ok, here's an update guys, I text her on the sunday, we exchanged a couple texts and then she invited me over for a movie at hers 'sometime'. So I set the day- thursday night- kept my texting to a minimum, all went well- just in the morning as I was leaving the goodbye hug felt a little bit...

So I had a one night stand friday night (sunday morning now) It was the classic we were both drunk situation. I gave her my number and got her to send a text to my phone because it was dead. I did suggest to her that I would take her for coffee sometime, but that was before we were hooking up...

Yeah haha I knew I shouldn't of texted the next day. And yes from past experience girls who are interested tend to send a message soon after saying they enjoyed it etc. I wish girls would be a bit more straight up/honest if they were not interested instead of saying something vague haha. I...