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  1. flowtheory

    Good YouTube Channel

    Check out 'Darius M' on YouTube. He has good insight for anyone who enjoys listening to gender dynamics in attraction and purpose. He's direct and doesn't beat around the bush, from the content I have watched. Figured I would share due to the trajectories people want here. Enjoy. Quick Links:
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    Old plate/love interest reached out

    So I downloaded LINE app to talk to someone new I met online, and when I downloaded it, a past interest of mine saw I now have it. She messaged me, and about 10 messages in she said she would love to meet up with me to reconnect if I’m interested. I haven’t responded because I’m just not sure I...
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    Post Break-up

    In your guys’ experience what has been the most nourishing activities, reflections, exercises which have enabled you to become better after a LTR, so you’re in a great place in three-six months from the departing? I know of the obvious self improvement roads - gym, healthy eating, reading...
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    Becoming Chad

    From your guys’ personal journeys and various experiences on your own personal road to your subjective alpha mentality, what new habits (meditation, weight lifting, running, reading, hobbies, affirmations, more sleep, journaling, etc.) and destruction of old habits (no junk food, no sitting...
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    Trouble with tinder?

    I’m quite a good looking guy, good photos, and bio, but I honestly get very few matches in both bumble and tinder; 2 a week.. which makes no sense to me or friends.. Anyone else experiencing this? I’m thinking messed up my ELO rating a couple years ago from swiping right on everything and...
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    Funny and somewhat embarrassing hook up stories.

    So I’m recently single and back in the dating cesspool. Been on about three dates since the collapse of my relationship. Two were very meh, and one was.. good.. enough. Good enough came over last night (Second hang) and it’s abruptly clear I’m not at all that in to her for a bunch of reasons...
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    Help reading MRI report?

    Anyone here a physician or radiologist? Chances are slim, but figured I would ask.
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    Mystery and Challenge in relationship

    For those of you in relationships or who have had relationships (even if it was successful short term). What are some things you applied to keep the challenge and mystery alive, which drove up your woman’s interest without using drama or causing issues? I have a habit of being routined...
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    Tricky Position

    Been seeing my girlfriend for 5 months now. Have fallen in love. The other day she told me after she completes her BAR exam and becomes a full fledge lawyer she’s wanting to move back to Europe and pursue a career there, as that’s the geography that has captured her heart and where she’s...
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    Boredom

    How to handle when a woman says she’s sometimes bored in a relationship. Was reading an article earlier about providing security and being reliable in relationships. It’s what many strive for but at a certain point it can often be a kiss of death leading to predicability, and the partners -...
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    Euro Trip

    So I’m In the process of planning a Eurotrip in August. We have roughly 2.5 weeks. Right now we’re doing Montenegro, Croatia for a day to Dubrovnik, Italy, and either Greece or France. In your opinions to those who have been, which place is better to see, Greece or France?
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    Saying I Love You first

    Went out tonight with a group from my class. The topic was on who says “I Love You” first in a relationship. I was on the side that the woman should say it first 100%. All the women at the table agreed that the man should say it first and this was due to the fact that they didn’t want to be...
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    Corey Wayne initiating

    According to Corey Wayne, the woman should be doing 80% of the initiating in a relationship or early stages of dating with planning dates, texting, calling. What are your guys’ opinions on this? I personally feel like that’s crazy and wouldn’t be the long term situation with a woman of value.
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    “We have too much sex”

    When women say “we have too much sex”, in a relationship, what does that mean? My current girlfriend and I have sex about 3-6 times every weekend in about a 27 hour time frame (sleep included). Don’t see each other much during the week, but when we do, there is sex once or twice. We still go...
  15. flowtheory

    What is this

    Ive had this a couple time with women I’ve dated. And am just now experiencing it with my current relationship. I have a tendency - if ones so inclined to call it that - to be very obersavtional on my surroundings. I enjoy taking everything in. So I am usually looking around a fair bit...
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    No sensitivity some mornings

    So I’ve noticed over the years, wether it be with myself or with a current partner, that my penis is not that sensitive in the morning. I can still have an erection but it’s majorly desensitized; like I have a rubber boner. If I walk around for a little bit, that numbness goes away and it...
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    Do women ever stop testing their man?

    Been reading a bunch of this on other sites and articles. And based on my own experiences and thinking back to them, along with my current, it seems as though they don’t really stop. Can range from bigger tests, to smaller ones. Thoughts?
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    Difference between pursuing and chasing

    There has been mention of these terms in multiple threads I’ve read. Pursuing being the more optimal. Figured I’d ask the board to see what the definitions are and the differences.
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    Don’t know what to do

    I feel like I’m being put in a weird spot with the woman I’m still seeing. After a young woman from my class wanted to hangout - Chloe - we agreed that one on ones with new people isn’t the best and doesn’t have a place in a relationship. So we won’t do that anymore. -fast forward 1 month-...
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    Circumcision conversation

    Had an awkward conversation that’s made me a little depressed and a bit annoyed. And maybe some of you guys have had the experience of this conversation. The woman I’m seeing loves to be honest. And maybe to a fault while not thinking how it may come across.. I don’t know. She’s not doing in...
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