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  1. oldmanofthesea

    Types of Women I approach

    What about smell?
  2. oldmanofthesea

    Hard Truth: There is no decent alternative to OLD

    There are a ton of things to know about OLD game. I would do some searching or create a new thread asking for input. I could write a book on OLD strategy. From the photos you select, to what you put in your bio, to how you talk with the girls and set the dates. It makes a huge difference.
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    Hard Truth: There is no decent alternative to OLD

    lol this is 100% facts. I'd say 75% of the run clubs I went to all ended at a pub. That's not a bad thing...... if you're into that. The combination of endorphins from running and alcohol after exercise is the best ice-breaker and break-down of social anxiety out there. I agree with you about...
  4. oldmanofthesea

    How to compete with older and more mature guys at clubs?

    Man it's funny to see a post like this while we have guys running around in here saying older guys can't get younger women :rofl: That aside, I wouldn't suggest night clubs. Learn to talk to women you see as you go about your day to day life, and consider joining co-ed sports.
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    Hard Truth: There is no decent alternative to OLD

    One example I could come up with that worked for me was to find something you like doing that also involves a lot of women who are your type. The key is that it is something you like doing regardless of women. I liked running, and many women who run are the kind of women I like, so I took my...
  6. oldmanofthesea

    Hard Truth: There is no decent alternative to OLD

    Cold approach takes work to learn how to do, but the work will make you a better person in MANY ways and in my opinion, you can't truly consider yourself as being red-pill aware until you have learned it. This is because there are myths/brainwashing about women and about social interaction that...
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    Going completely blank after approaching at clubs

    My rule is that if a girl is giving one word answers and making absolutely zero effort in the conversation, I move on. A girl doing this is sending you a clear message that she isn't interested without resorting to rejecting you more overtly. Take the hint and move on. There ARE times where a...
  8. oldmanofthesea

    Highlight of the year

    Yeah the social media thing is interesting. I went without social media for a while but then when I started approaching a lot of women I decided to go ahead and curate a FB profile. It wasn't fake - all the pics were real, of me out doing things with my friends, traveling the world, living an...
  9. oldmanofthesea

    Highlight of the year

    I believe this can happen though I personally haven't ever experienced it myself. Not a single time!! It might be because of the way I look. I don't look threatening and I'm not a beef-cake. I look kind of like Joseph Gordon-Levitt but with a short beard. If I looked like Jason Statham or Vinnie...
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    Highlight of the year

    I haven't followed the other thread many people are referring to here, so I don't know if this has been said or not, but the whole reason many women have been driving toward a shift in attitude toward older men dating younger women is due to female competition anxiety. As women age, they become...
  11. oldmanofthesea

    What would you rather do?

    None of the above. I would continue to work on myself until I got the kind of girls I wanted. And that is exactly what I did and I succeeded. The best part is that the benefits of that work don't just impact your romantic life, they impact all of your life.
  12. oldmanofthesea

    Are you the nice guy or the good guy?

    An orbiter is a perfect example of what women refer to as a "nice guy." It is a guy who gives gives gives while expecting nothing in return other than the chance at romance at some point in time. In addition, most nice guys tend to be very platonic and not very masculine. They don't flirt, they...
  13. oldmanofthesea

    Cold Approach in Grocery Store

    RE Dallas - I could see that. There are definitely plenty of cities I would not run approaches in or if I did I would not expect much. Just because I think it's a random sampling of the same general population. All my friends who are in their 20's go to bars to hang out and drink and talk and...
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    Humiliated field report! 1st date left early

    Sure - so I will circle back to my first reply where I mentioned we should put aside the fact that it's a bad idea to date a girl you work with..... I wanted to put that aside in order to see what might have gone wrong during the date so any mistakes aren't repeated in future dates with...
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    Humiliated field report! 1st date left early

    Ok good then it sounds like you did a great job for your part of the date. Do you have any other details or observations as to when/where the date might have gone sideways? Did it happen after something you said? Was it just a long slow ramp down from interest to disinterest without any...
  16. oldmanofthesea

    Humiliated field report! 1st date left early

    Do you feel you did a good job keeping the conversation going and asking questions? Or did you often wait for her to fill in the silent pauses? Was she giving long answers and talking a lot during the start of the date?
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    Humiliated field report! 1st date left early

    Ok unless you had a typo here - this isn't the 80/20 principle. You should be doing nearly all of the initiation, while she should be doing nearly all the talking. So she talks 80% of the time but you should be initiating 80-99% of the time - leading the conversation. Sometimes it is good to not...
  18. oldmanofthesea

    Humiliated field report! 1st date left early

    Why are you being so hard on yourself man? You can't be ever girl's cup of tea, just like every girl won't be yours. Trust me, you will end up on dates with girls who you end up deciding never to call again because they turn you off for some reason. The odd thing is her being your co-worker and...
  19. oldmanofthesea

    Cold Approach in Grocery Store

    @We_ArE_VeNOM - We are both advocates of talking to women we don't know and we both have great success doing it. My comments were not meant as a criticism of the differences between the way you do it and the way I do it; I was simply breaking down why I do some specific things differently than...
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