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  1. StrayCat

    First date and drinks?

    I play tennis a couple times a week with a group of people. This one girl, 27, who was new to the group, wanted to go to a new wine & spirits place that just opened up. She looked at me and asked if I wanted to go with her. Since she's attractive, I said sure and then she asked my number and she...
  2. StrayCat

    How would you handle this situation

    I had been seeing her non-exclusively for a couple months, maybe six weeks. She really didn't have much time due to family, which I didn't fully believe and she had so many men texting her all day, but as I was working other women, I did continue to see her. She came down with a really bad cold...
  3. StrayCat

    Ending a relationship but leaving the door open?

    A bit of a tough situation here, but I think I made the correct decision. I was dating this woman for a few months, but things became erratic. Where she'd just get up and travel somewhere for a week on supposed work, and then come back, just to go back to the same place for vacation. I backed...
  4. StrayCat

    Bumble match and date scenerio

    I am working on younger women in their 20's and early 30's. This one swiped right on me a few days ago and I opened communication as well. We went back and forth for 3 or 4 times and I asked for her number and if she'd like to meet for a drink. She replied absolutely and gave me her cellphone...
  5. StrayCat

    Dating an woman in her 40's

    I went back on to online dating with new pro pics and bio thinking with my much slender look and new style women in their 20's and 30's would be interested. Absolutely no luck. The only ones that are interested are overweight women, ugly women, and single mommas. Since the single mommas were...
  6. StrayCat

    Feel like I've lost purpose. Tired of life.

    In my 20s - early 30's I was pretty happy, pain free and a go getter. I'm now 42 bored and just tired of life. No, I am not depressed, but my chronic pain has been acting up for weeks and it just destroys any interests I have of leaving my place. I can work from home, and I still do my work for...
  7. StrayCat

    Think I am losing this ones interest. need some insight

    I really do not know how to fix this. I am chatting with a few girls, but there's one I've been jonesing for over the last month. We've seen each other four times. Third time we were naked and playing around, but she didn't allow me to enter her. Forth time she had her period, but we did...
  8. StrayCat

    Had the weirdest first call

    Had the weirdest first call for a few minutes. I originally asked if she'd like to get a drink sometime, she said sure, give me a call and we'll set something up. I called her, it went to VM. She called me back and the call lasted a few minutes. I asked a few questions about her, her travels and...
  9. StrayCat

    Can a loner turn things around and actually put up with a female?

    I think this might be my biggest hurdle. I've been focused so many years on my own life and going my own way, perhaps it's working against me? I've tried relationships and dating, but I am often told I am cold at times, aloft and not paying much attention. It seems I like the chase to get them...
  10. StrayCat

    Online dating snafu?

    A woman messaged me on Match a few days ago and we chatted back and for a day or two. I suggested we meetup and then she replied with a funny line about drinks. I replied back as lol, we'll manage. The next morning, she messaged me asking if I was still interested in meeting for drinks. I...
  11. StrayCat

    New photos. new profile. Some decent results. But...

    I took some advice from reading these threads and took some new professional photos, cut my profile down to a couple of sentences and several women reached out to me. I just said, Hello, my name is Straycat, what's yours. I was surprised something that basic received results. I went back and...
  12. StrayCat

    Do long term relationships last anymore or have they gone away of the dodo...

    Not things to last anymore. Everything seems to be timed and only a few months; at best. Are LTRs going the way of the dodo bird? I was speaking to some co-workers and it seems they too run through partners like a mill. I've asked don't you want something long term? One told me why...
  13. StrayCat

    OLD dilema - chatting with a woman

    I reached out to this woman around the 10th of March, and she replied back a couple days later. I then asked her another question, she replied back two weeks later with an answer, offered her name and said she's been super busy at work. She's an RN at a local hospital. On April 2, I then...
  14. StrayCat

    First calls and first dates.. What do you talk about?

    I am sure I am doing something wrong, so I wanted to see what the forum says on things to talk about on a first and first dates.
  15. StrayCat

    Condoms and sex

    Just curious, do you guys ejaculate in the condom inside of her or take it off and ejaculate on her face, chest, butt or mouth? I am thinking maybe because I just ejaculate in the condom inside of her, perhaps it's too boring and anticlimactic. Or is this just in my head?
  16. StrayCat

    Stomach issues

    So I've been working on my health for the last year or two. Arms, bigger. Shoulders broader. Chest defined. Legs like tree trunks. Top and middle abs have definition and you can see the pack. Lower abs right above the pubic area is round and fat. Not hanging over, but not defined. A...
  17. StrayCat

    Think I screwed myself (socially) by moving to where I am

    So, in short, a few years ago, I moved out of the city (Manhattan) of 20 million people and bought a house. I hated apartment living and over the years I've rebuilt the house and fixed it up. I looks really nice now. The only negative part is that it's in a rural area about 45 mins for the...
  18. StrayCat

    Hard to read this one. Dating for about a month

    I joined eharmony to get back into dating, I joined Match too, but had few replies, so I disabled my profile. So, in December she sent a smile to me on eHarmony and I reached out a day later. We met up after New Years, and there seemed to be attraction. Deep long kissing, etc. We've had three...
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