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Some of the people on my dads side of my family could be categorized as “grifters”.... my uncle god rest his soul hustle and swindled his entire life... never held down a job for long before going out on some type of injury. This always annoyed me but it was my family and I treated him with...

This happens often with me. It’s usually with things I absolutely dread doing. I once had to give a presentation in front of a crowd of about 500 people... leading up to it I was absolutely dreading it... felt like I was getting sick thinking about it... and when I finally did it and got it...

I am now 43.... as I age my group of friends has slowly dwindled. I feel like I am on a different path than my closest buddies. Since 2008 we have always taken trips together, golf trips, trips to see our favorite teams, guys trips to different cities and destinations. When I was younger...

Right after Christmas came down with covid. Wasn’t bad at all 2 days of sneezing and only reason I tested was wife was positive and usually take my elderly Aunt grocery shopping. I had no fever, no aches, felt decent snd 3 days after testing positive went to do a back work out in my home gym...

To start I have always been prone to being introverted. I enjoy socializing and going out with friends but realize I will always tire and need down time afterwards. This year we had a Christmas party Friday, Saturday and Sunday... at the end of the get together on Saturday I was already...

So many motivational videos preach grinding... lack of sleep.. pushing yourself when your exhausted... killing the b!tch inside of you. It’s BS..... The last two months I’ve embarked on a journey to get diced and in the best cardio condition of my life. Built up to running nearly 40 miles...

When I found this forum in 2002 I was 22 years old. I was fortunate enough to have an absolute blast in my 20’s and early 30’s. Vacations... hookups... great memories. During those years my goal was to get this out of my system and I believed in my 40’s-70’s the pace of my life should slow...

Taking my SUV in to the dealer on Tuesday. Just wanted to get an idea what could be wrong and what $ I am looking at. when driving on bumpy roads it shakes ridiculously ! To the point the steering wheel feels like it might shake out of my hands. I have a 2019 Toyota 4 runner. No other...

On Tuesday I was getting ready for work and suddenly had an annoying pain under my right shoulder blade. I did some stretches and it subsided until this morning. I woke up at 4am and it was brutal... almost felt like a cramp I couldn’t reach. Got ready for work... when I got into my car...

This is just alittle friendly advice for those of you that like seafood. Always have Benadryl on hand. I am not allergic to fish but had a horrific experience last night. made baked mahi mahi... was starving and downed two filets. Within a few minutes of finishing my face and head felt like...

Anyone here ever buy them? Have a good amount of cash rotting in a savings account and saw 3 month notes are over 5 percent? What is the easiest way to purchase them ?

Is there some alternative motive to this question? ..,not many people look like me or have my build. I am 6ft4... and built very well for 42 year olds but recently last 2-3 years I have had several females ask me “ you look familiar... I know you right .... my response is usually no...we...

Ok... I assumed this was just really bad tendonitis. I’ve had it on and off for over a year and managed to work thru it. Yesterday did a tricep workout and went golfing. This morning the pain in my elbow was brutal and I now have a golf ball sized lump on the elbow bone. Sent a picture...

Since I graduated high school in 99 I have suffered from occasional panic attacks. Started at my high school graduation.. it was moved inside due to severe storms. I was jammed in the middle of the isle. It was insanely hot... my mind went haywire felt like I was having a heart attack, felt...

Anyone on here ever take lorazepam? I tend to get claustrophobic on flights and have had some unpleasant experiences flying. I have a bunch of flights coming up and talked with my doctor. He prescribed me lorazepam. I was curious how I will feel ?

My college gf from 2002-2004 texted me and told me she would be at her parents old lake house alone in two weeks. We should catch up.... To start she was the first girl I dated after getting on this site. I was extremely aloof the entire time with her... ghosted her numerous times... and...

Slightly alarmed... 41 years old so my max heart rate should be 179-178. This morning went on a run... at the end I do several sprints up a massive hill near my house. When it was all over my garmin notified me that I set a HR record... my HR during those sprints got into the 190’s. Is...

This has been somewhat unexpected. In 1997 at 17 years old I had a girl pluck a grey hair out of my head in class and said omg.. your starting to go grey. I immediately got depressed and wondered why at 17 this had started in me. I never thought anything of it and assumed I was cursed to...

I don’t know if I’m being a bit dramatic but since April I’ve been somewhat bothered. Every spring me and two of my “friends” go on a guys trip. It’s always golf, drinking and hanging at the beach. My one friend is 47 now... I’m 41 and the other is 45. Anyway here is why I’m wound up...

This is something I’ve honestly wanted to do for the last 15 years but put it off. Looking for input on what’s the best way to start ? first im 41... I am still in pretty good shape. Do people start at this age? I have always been able to hold my own because I’m big and in great shape...