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    Ex still affecting me

    My My question kind of is also can I be pissed off at my friend who told me? Like the reason I've blocked her everywhere is so I don't have to be privy to the details of her life, but this friend came and told me his friend is gonna go on a date with her? What's the intention of him telling me...
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    Ex still affecting me

    I guess you'd be able to empathize more if you dial back to the time you experienced your first heartbreak. And as per the gym advice, yes that's always my first go to. Been lifting for almost 4 years rn, my deadlifts at 2.6 of my bodyweight and I'm working out 5 days a week for approximately...
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    Ex still affecting me

    Thanks a lot for your support man, it just makes it so hard for me because I feel like she's a complete stranger to me now, my first ever girlfriend who once loved me more than anything is just so cold now and is easily going upon her life
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    Ex still affecting me

    So I really got some sound advice the last time I posted here and I'm hoping for something similar, my ex(20f) and I 21(m) broke up about 6 months ago, she was my first girlfriend, love and basically my first everything so I was super attached. I was her Third boyfriend and she was just more...
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    Lost my first love

    Hahahha no man I'm in those 20 percent of Indian families who are chill and not backward, I'd have my girl over and we'd **** while everyone was home and it was chill, there's no way I'll do an arranged marriage, and definitely won't marry till I'm 28 at Least ( 21) right now
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    Lost my first love

    Y Yup, it's ****ed mate LMAO
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    Lost my first love

    Um I definitely agree I have oneitis or whatever that is called, I don't lack game, throughout my relationship I had to tell other girls in a subtle way that I have a girlfriend as I could see where they were taking the conversation, then they'd change how they spoke to me, I genuinely was in...
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    Lost my first love

    Pointing out to your partying question, we live at our own houses and not at uni because it's just 30 minutes away, she has super strict parents and is generally a nice girl, all she did was go to college, hang with me, go to the gym, that's it. This restrictions thing also used to piss me off...
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    Lost my first love

    I'm a bit better since day 1, appetite is slowly coming back and ****, to be honest I think I was more in love with who I wanted her to be, I was much more affectionate than she was, that's just how she is, like uncomfortable with pda and **** whilst I'd always want to touch her or something...
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    Lost my first love

    I apprec I appreciate the effort you put into the reply, thanks a ton, also, it wasn't a perfect relationship obviously, our sex drives were very different, she's good with once a week, I could go everyday my man haha, but honestly we really loved each other to death and I can't seem to let...
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    Lost my first love

    #1 Really need some feedback or support from any of the experienced Bros, I just got out of a 14th month relationship with my first love ( 20f) and I'm 21. I just didn't date before her because I really wanted someone special, I'm old school that way. Since it was my first relationship and her...
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    Lost my first love

    Really need some feedback or support from any of the experienced Bros, I just got out of a 14th month relationship with my first love ( 20f) and I'm 21. I just didn't date before her because I really wanted someone special, I'm old school that way. Since it was my first relationship and her...
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    Can't get over girlfriends past

    Why so? I'm willing to learn, it is my first relationship that's why I'm being a **** about this but I'm willing to listen to experience. And please read my whole thread
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    Can't get over girlfriends past

    Whos that in reference with?
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    Can't get over girlfriends past

    I don't do this infront of her don't worry, I tell her that her past has made her the person she is and I love that person, but sometimes I get triggered knowing that I could have had her since the very beginning if only I was hanging out with her, and she told me she liked me when she was...
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    Can't get over girlfriends past

    I understand everyone's point, what I want to know is what do I do when these intrusive negative thoughts come up? Think of my memories with her or something?
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    Can't get over girlfriends past

    Nono I trust her, reason being : she told me he pressurised her to have sex and she said no while we were just friends, we weren't dating. And when we started dating and I got to second base with her I made a comment like " there's always a first time " because I thought that dude is so ugly she...
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    Can't get over girlfriends past

    I'm upset that she ever had anything to do with that guy, see point is we could have been dating since last year, it's just that I fell for another girl who led me on while this guy chased her and got her, so, we could have done everything together for the first time, because if you saw those...
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    Can't get over girlfriends past

    Lmao she wasn't horny at all. Look at his face you'll see, she thought of it as an obligation because she loved him and she told me herself that she felt she had no choice. ( By the way she is a virgin, guy tried but could only get to second base with her)
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    Can't get over girlfriends past

    Both of us are still virgins, she reached second base with her ex and Nothing further. So I guess I still have her virginity to take ( she said we'll lose it to each other one day) so I guess I'm being over dramatic
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