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    Dating/Social sites in Mexico?

    So I'll be moving to Mexico in a few months and I was wondering what sites a are good for meeting girls. I've checked out the more well-known dating sites (amor.com, MexicanCupid etc) and they seem to have like 15 active members in a given area. Is online dating not really a thing in...
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    Ever lied to get laid?

    And I don't just mean told a girl sweet nothings to get her into bed. I mean told a flat-out verifiable untruth. I came close once - I was on a trip and hit it off with a local girl. On my second to last day she texted wanting to come over, but added "are you planning on staying here? If you...
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    Possibly crazy girl, Ridiculous situation

    I live in a classic, cramped New York apartment with a bunch of other people. I get along with my roommates but we don't really interact. One of them has a younger sister (20-21) who is crashing while she looks for a job. We'd said hello to each other but never had a conversation. Early...
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    Dumped for having bad genes

    My gf just told me that we shouldn't date anymore. We've been together for about 5 months and we was starting to think about the future, and what would happen if we had kids together. I have albinism and a heart condition, both of which are genetic. She told me that she couldn't risk having...
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    Made out, now she's going away for 3 weeks

    Met a girl at a party, we meet a week later at a bar and have a good time and make out. Now, it's Xmas break and she's leaving for almost three weeks. How do I play the time in between? I could go complete NC and just message her when she gets back, but I was thinking I'd send her a text...
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    Ever had a chick just disappear with no explanation?

    So I was dating this chick for a couple of months...she seemed cool, always arrived on time, responded to texts promptly. We had a lot in common and the sex was awesome. THEN, one day (about a week ago now) in the middle of a text conversation she stopped responding, and I haven't heard from...
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    Why are the best in bed always crazy?

    I've been dating a girl for about a month and a half now - she's cool, fun, and the sex is unbelievable. Maybe the best I've ever had. But....she's out of her mind and sooner or later it's going to come and bite me. She's on all kinds of meds, she changes moods in a flash, and she clearly has...
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    Whoah, major disrespect

    So I took a trip to visit this girl I've been seeing who got a summer job far from where I live. Earlier today we were making plans for tonight and She said 'let's go dancing after dinner' (which she knows i dont like) I say I'd rather go for a walk in the park'. She says 'fine, we can go for a...
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    'Looks' vs. phsyique

    OK, so there have been plenty of 'looks' threads here lately, but I've got a slightly different questions what matters more, your 'looks' - that is, your natural and inborn attractiveness (hair, jawline, height etc.) vs. your body (muscles, toning). Obviously the first can only be tweaked...
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    Yet more proof about how screwed online dating is

    The title pretty much says it all: '20 Guys Trying to Bang a Total Psycho on OKCupid'. http://slacktory.com/2012/05/20-guys-try-to-bang-psycho-on-okcupid/ Read through, it's actually pretty funny. Damn, if I were a girl anytime I needed an ego boost I'd just make an online dating profile.
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    Girk proposes open marriage

    Sorry about the typo in the headline (I'm writing on an iPhone). Obviously it should be 'girl' So the girl I've been seeing for the past year suggested that we get Married and spend the rest of our lives traveling the work together. Here's the thing; she said she'd 'stay out of my way' when it...
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    Accept that I have limited appeal?

    After years of working on my game and other areas of my personal development, I've reached the conclusion that the kind of girls who are attracted to me just aren't that common. The reasons being: Looks; I have albinism and in addition to the pale skin and hair this causes eye problems so...
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    Book tells women to settle

    I hope this isn't old news already, but I was just flipping through a copy of 'Marry Him' by Lori Gottlieb. Basically, the point of the book is that modern women (well, middle-class educated women anyway) are 'spoiled for choice' when it comes to guys. They have so many men worshiping them...
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    My Life as an Albino - It's not great, but it's all white

    So, as I posted previously (http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1848215#post1848215) I have a condition called albinism which causes a lack of melanin in the skin, eyes, and hair. It also causes severe vision problems and sensitivity to light. Very few albinos look like the dude from...
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    Unusual physical condition - what to do?

    Long story short, I'm an albino. No, I don't look like that guy from 'Powder'. Shut the fvck up. As you might imagine I look like I've never seen the sun (and I do avoid it as much as I can). I'm very sensitive to light and so beaches, bright days in the park, clubs with flashing lights...
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    I've discovered what I want to do

    In life, I mean. In my case, I want to work for the Foreign Service. Not easy to do; only about 1% (or less) of the applicants pass the exam. Still, I enjoy it and I'm good at it. If I don't make the grade the first or seocnd or third time I'll find something else in the same field...
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    Behold, the Power of Pvssy

    Not long ago i was lying awake one night cradling a naked young girl who had fallen asleep on my shoulder. I can never fall asleep in those positions (too damn hot) so I began thinking about my life and her life. my life - I was lucky enough to be born in the United States to a fairly...
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    Dealing with emotional manipulation

    Just off the phone with a girl I'd been seeing for a few months. Realized it wasn't going anywhere, out of the blue she demanded to know where we were headed, i was honest with her and hoped she'd be cool. Wrong, of course. Over the past couple of weeks she's just been calling me and accusing...
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    Why am I so tired?

    Over the last couple of months I've had several days - maybe once every 10 days) when I wake up exhausted and things don't improve as the day goes on. I exercise 4-5 days a week (cardio, weights and yoga I get 7-8 hours of sleep every night. my diet isn't perfect but it could be alot worse. I...
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    Sensitivity and Condoms

    For a long time I had phimosis, a condition where the foreskin cannot be retracted. I'm over it now but I guess because of that the head of my penis is particularly sensitive. BUT, this makes it very difficult to put on a condom. Specifically, rolling the condom on is very painful. Any ideas?
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