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    How come I don't detect interest from women?

    sometimes (most of the time? all the time?) when I talk to a girl, I don't detect any interest. If I were a girl and there was a guy I liked, I would get self conscious around him. I don't detect any level of self-consciousness from girls that I talk to. No signs of being nervous. I would also...
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    girl at office who knows all rumors

    just curious how I come off. I try to be quiet and stay out of everybody's hair but sometimes I wonder if anyone knows/cares about me. but you know what, you're right who cares.
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    girl at office who knows all rumors

    There is this girl at the office where I "kind of" work - by "kind of" I mean I am not a full time employee, I go there whenever I am needed so tonight me and her and a couple of other people from the office hung out and it turns out that this girl knows a lot of people's secrets around the...
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    asking about her STD status via text

    I am paranoid about STDs. or maybe just cautious. Last time I went on a first date with a girl I asked about her STD status. I asked her whether she has ever had herpes cold sores on her lips. No second date. Two guys in real life have told me to stop asking girls questions about STDs. "you...
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    Ghosting will it work

    if you're posting these messages that means you haven't moved on. stop thinking about her and move on. your first mistake was telling her and her friends that you like her. it's ok, how else would you learn other than by making mistakes.
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    Ghosting will it work

    um...is she the only girl to exist within 100 miles of where you live? she is not interested in you. the more you keep pursuing this the more you're wasting your time. and yes, ignoring her is pursuing her because it's about your intent. move on. plenty of fish.
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    dont talk about money with girls?

    is it ever ok to talk about money? every scenario that I can think of makes you look cheap examples: girl: nice shirt guy: thanks, it was only $25, I couldn't believe it girl: this guy is cheap guy: wanna go out? girl: yes guy: ok, my treat girl: this guy is cheap is it ever ok to talk about...
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    Answer to "are you looking for a relationship or just to hang out?"

    you're right, I just don't know how that can be done without looking cheap.
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    The truth about looks, of course they matter, BUT

    I didn't read your whole post, but women just want a man who takes care of himself. That's all.
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    Answer to "are you looking for a relationship or just to hang out?"

    every guy that I have spoken to in real life has told me to lie and say "I am looking for a relationship" get in her pants and then after a while say "sorry, we are not compatible" I have an ethical problem with this. I don't think it's right to mislead a girl like that. When I told someone I...
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    Good Tinder Profile

    bro, is your google broken? like there are literally millions of pages written on this. usually the biggest problem is "boring pictures" show some activities in your pictures. go surfing and have your friend take a picture. go play basketball and have your friend take a picture. go to the zoo.
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    The single most important principle I've learned for attracting women is...

    "women cannot and will not date down" Neither will men, bro. If you feel like a woman has lower value than you, would you give her the time of day? would you? When it comes to dating, there is only one way that it could work: Each side needs to have lower value than the other side, but each...
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    if she is uncomfrotable, you're done

    I dont know if it is something I am doing wrong or it's natural, but a lot of times I have noticed women get nervous when I approach them. and if she is uncomfortable, it's over. attraction cannot happen. I am talking about the first 10 seconds of the interaction. I know we feel uncomfortable...
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    When a girl holds her guy's hand

    what does it mean when this happens: a girl and a guy are walking on the street. The girl notices that you're looking at her, and she then holds the guy's hand. sometimes, she even starts kissing him. it's obvious that you caused her to hold hands because right after they walk past you, she...
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    need your opinions regarding clothing I bought

    Hi, The problem is, how I feel is biased by 1) the price and 2) other people's opinions. Before you said these are just regular shirts, I thought "wow, these are so cool and stylish, I feel so good wearing them knowing that I didn't buy them from TJ Max" but now that you said they are nothing...
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    need your opinions regarding clothing I bought

    Hi guys this is a continuation of my post from last week. To summarize: I dont know anything about clothes and fashion. I went shopping with this guy and he told me to buy these. They are all rag and bone brand. I need to know if I should keep them or return them. I am going to post the...
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    one shirt for $74.99 WTF?

    This guy told me my clothes look nerdy, so he took me shopping the other day at saks fifth avenue and nordstrom rack so I can look more "hip" I bought these 3 rag and bone t-shirts: $74.99 each pair of Lucky brand jeans: $50 socks: I don't remember the price but probably an exorbitant price too...
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    make eye contact, make her the center of attention lol

    I meant like approaching a stranger at a bar. agree with this, more narcissists than ever before. especially the girls that do duck face and take selfies to show their 1000 "friends" that they have never met.
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    Infiniti g37 coupe v. Jeep wrangler

    what mpg should I expect from the wrangler? I know the official mpg is 17 but I understand that you can't trust the official mpg
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    Cafe server turns ice cold after I suggest getting drinks with her (Growth Journal, Log 6 of ∞)

    I didn't read your post. but I can tell you need to change your mindset. how do I know this? based on the length of your post. if you're so obsessed about what happened that you took the time to write all this, that means you care too much. you shouldn't remember what happened in your...
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