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  1. darksprezzatura

    AMA 15 plate spinner

    Hi guys. I’ve been a member of this forum since almost a decade now. At any point of time I’m spinning 5-15 plates a week. Ask me anything. I’m not here for bragging rights or to justify any theories, red pill, plate spinning etc. I’m here in a scientific capacity to show, primarily the...
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    I’m dealing with a breakup - Oneitis tips please

    I ended a relationship with an HB 6.5 of an year. I fell in love with her, but kept banging like 12-15 girls over the year because I saw a lot of red flags or the relationship being doomed. Now that it has ended, I realise I have mild oneitis for her due to my daily routine of talking meeting...
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    Butterflies

    I just read this. Instead of chasing butterflies, build a garden, the butterflies would automatically come. Just thought I’d share. It’s been a while. Hope you guys are doing great.
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    Reality Check

    If I have to intentionally delay my response to a woman or more in order to not appear clingy or needy and have that abundance mindset, I have no life and I am not ready for a girlfriend. Using other women to appear unavailable would work artificially, but would not let me focus on my purpose...
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    I’m cheating on her at this moment

    Taking a dump and gonna cheat in 2 minutes. Don’t know what to feel about it. Don’t know why I’m doing it either.
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    I cheated

    I have been cheating on my girlfriend of 4 months. I’ve slept with over 9 girls over 50 times. I am ashamed of breaking someone’s trust. The reason (I know I’m appearing rationalising of the fact) is that I doubted this relationship would last. Now I indeed feel like I could be with her, is...
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    Breakup (I’ll appreciate support)

    Hello kind folks! I’d been in a relationship since 3 months. We’d been hooking up since a year and she pushed for exclusivity and I gave it to her after a few months. Over time I had caught feelings for her. Red flags: - Conservative dangerous family - No female friends, lots of guy friends...
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    Relationship with expiration date dilemma

    Would you be in a relationship with someone you love knowing there’s a 99% chance it has an expiration date due to family/life goal issues?
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    Break up - Calling in the troops

    Facts: - Old plate HB 7 from 5 years ago comes back in the picture - We hookup for 6 months, she pushes for exclusivity - We get into a relationship for a month - I notice a few red flags - I initiate a breakup and tell her why initially she’s adjusting and tries to compromise but soon things...
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    I fvcked up

    So after a breakup this week, I shared some very personal details about my ex to 2-3 people in my family/friends. I shared it to them as those details could be a risk for me as my ex had some traumatic/abusive events with her ex in the past; and she’d sort of tried to replicate them with me but...
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    My reaction to a flake

    Had a date with my main plate of 6 months tomorrow, which she had asked me out on. She cancels today saying she has to reschedule, a family thing came up. No reschedule date/time. I said ok. I threw her number. She texts later saying can we talk? I don’t respond. Maybe I’m toxic. Maybe her...
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    Pro tip

    If a girl gives you her number, read it back to her with one digit wrong. If she corrects you, keep it else throw it away
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    Got Strong but Fat [HELP]

    Hey guys. Ive gotten fat again in the journey to make strength gains. It's not like quitting working out and eating junk all day long. My strength has massively improved: Bench: 248 lb Squat: 347 lb Single Arm Row: 124 lb (I don't DL) I've gained over 50 pounds in an year, being in an...
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    Left the country, plates still spinning

    There's something intense about moving away thousands of miles from the women I used to sleep with. The weeks upto leaving the country I got laid 5-6 times a week by 5-6 girls. It was insane. No wonder nomads are perceived as hotter than cultivators. All the plates are still available but...
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    Pregnancy scare anxiety [Urgent advice]

    Hey folks, cut to the chase. - Smashed a hottie silly last weekend - She squirted a lot, dripped over her leg - Said that's never happened to her and maybe the condom slipped - I should've checked if it had slipped, didn't appear broken as broken condoms get completely ripped - I'd also pulled...
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    2 plates crashed the same day [need advice]

    Currently, I'm spinning 7 plates. 3 are regular weekly rotations who live near. 1. Manager 25 yo cute, slight chub 2. Lawyer 25 yo, fit and competitive 3. Professor 29 yo, fit and feminine 4 are plates in different cities I meet when I hang out. 4. Intern 19 yo, cute as hell, fit...
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    Plates Crashing - NY Phenomenon

    Hello gents, Just an interesting insight into the sport. 2 plates crashed last week, I'm sure it's a new year phenomenon. Plate 1[crashed]: Giving medical excuses not to meet, when I see her going out on socials. This girl told me she wants to marry me drunk last month, to which I didn't...
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    Mission 10%

    I've lean bulked for almost 5-6 months now. Been training religiously since 3 years now, still gains have jumped well non-linearly My strength has gone up: Bench 225x5 Squats: 315x5 One arm rows: 110x5 Lat pull downs: 291x5 (I don't DL) I gained to 210 at 6'2 ~15-18% tbf (probably 20%)...
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    How I look [outline]

    Just being a tad bit more vulnerable to the community in lines with the post I made earlier: https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/caring-is-alpha.271765/ Shoutout to @DEEZEDBRAH @nicksaiz65 @mrgoodstuff @zinc4 and other folks active in the fitness subforum. Started off as a 330 pound guy...
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    Caring is alpha

    Three stages: - Naive - Jerk - Wise The naive guy pretends to care about women he wants to have sex with, or for as long as he got a shot. The jerk pretends to not care for anyone, while caring all the more about the pretense. The wise actually cares for his tribe, takes initiative to solve...
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