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    Whats the best way to handle this?

    Ok guys. So i spoke to this girl earlier and she seemed to accept me telling her we wouldn't go anywhere, and should just put the past weekend down to some fun between consenting adults. She said at 1st that she would "let me off the hook" as this was the 2nd time I rejected her and thats the...
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    Whats the best way to handle this?

    Hey guys, I turned 30 in early november. For the last month or so i've been talking to a woman of 34. She's a friend of a friends girlfriend. Initally I told her we would be better off as friends after our 1st date, however, she persisted in chasing me and she came to my apartment last friday...
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    Top Beatles Songs for Oneitis

    "You've got to hide your love away" Great song but cringy if you can relate.
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 135 So I've had NC with the woman from last summer/autumn. I'm finally beginning to feel I'm over it. Every now and again I reminisce about the times we had together. However, I'm realising now that the woman I invested in never existed, I idealized and projected everything I desire in a...
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    The *No Contact* Challenge! ( Read this if you just got dumped)

    Day 100 I got involved with a co worker last summer. Was seeing her for a month. It was pretty full on. 40 hours per week together plus me staying in her's 3-4 nights per week. Thats a few months of dating crammed into a month. She literally went cold over night and ended it. I still saw her in...
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    A recent experience

    You're right man. This **** has happened to me several times in the past, and I haven't learned. I went on 1 date with this girl, after that I would just go to her place and hang out. She actually spoke about her ex every time I was in hers. She could see I wasn't pleased that she still spoke to...
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    A recent experience

    I think this pretty much sums it up. I got roped in to her dramas and got attached. When she ended it I was really pissed off and down in the dumps about it. After that I heard her in work saying that she was going out with her ex. I thought she was then back with him. However, on a work night...
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    A recent experience

    Well, I guess the question to be taken away from it is, I always seem to get involved with women who are bad news. They're attracted to me, and I to them. With this one, I knew she was bad news, but when I thought about walking the other way, or we argued, I would get a deep fear of losing her...
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    A recent experience

    This all started around the start of August, I work in a contact center (I know depressing stuff). I had fancied her for a number of months, but until she was actually put into the same team as me, I never really got talking to her. After a few weeks of just talking generally, I got her number...
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