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    Does anyone here have hope for our civilization?

    It seems there’s an inexorable push towards a society that celebrates freedom from accountability and, basically, freedom from reality. Where do most of you see our cultural trajectory launching us? Better or worse places? Do you think our grandchildren will have better lives than we have?
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    Another one gets fat and about to get dumped. Kinda sad about it.

    Met this really sweet girl last year. This is the kinda girl that most guys on here call unicorns when it comes to how you want to be treated. Except... well she got fat. I mean I’m really thinking I’m cursed. Why do all my women get fat on me? I set a good example. Eat healthy. Stay active...
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    Average $ it would take to bring out the prostitution in her?

    I was thinking today of how successful I’d be getting random women to sleep with me for money. Like start a conversation and after a few minutes keep offering $100 bills until they say yes. Not that I would need to do that to get laid. But just to see how much it takes to break them. You know...
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    Your reaction and thoughts on this news?

    https://www-m.cnn.com/2018/09/07/us/california-dine-and-dash-additional-charges/index.html
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    What’s a normal guy do in this situation?

    Go to store with girl while in a fledgling relationship and girlfriend starts telling guy he should buy clothes he doesn’t want to wear and he has too many clothes that are a material she doesn’t like. Then she says he’s being weird because he refuses to since he knows what he does and doesn’t...
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    Chick keeps matching text response time.

    I’m talking about to the minute sometimes, but usually within a 5 min range. I’m generally busy with in-person conversations. So if I initiate at 5 pm she’ll reply at 5:20. But by then I’m already onto something else and then let’s say 1 hr 37 min passes and I get back to her. She will wait 1 hr...
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    Do you write off women like this?

    if you sense she’s testing your confidence, your intentions, your interest level Example - you have a great conversation. She gives you her number but didn’t even ask for it. Then you call to ask her out and she gives the vague responses like “that might work we’ll have to see...or she says no...
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    Men like the chase?

    I’m always hearing about how men like to chase and will lose interest in a woman who doesn’t make him chase. And this belief apparently is perpetuated by some men, not just women. What do you all think about this belief? And what are the consequences to women and men as a result?
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    STDs and reckless promiscuity

    What is your overall experience with people you’ve been with when it comes to “safe sex” practices? How quickly do women sleep with you? Do they ask when you were last tested for various STDs? Do they ask if you’ve ever been diagnosed with any? Do they insist you wear a condom or refuse oral...
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    Dating women who claim to be alpha

    Being asked out for a 2nd date by her. She has kinda been turning me off through the little texting we've done since the first date a week ago, when she told me she's an alpha female and a tough cookie. For instance she said I gave her an insulting compliment about a bikini pic she sent me. I...
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    Highly recommended reading

    http://www.feministcurrent.com/2015/03/20/of-course-men-want-children-more-than-women-do/ This really opened up my eyes. How could I not realize what a worthless pig I am. I am at a loss of what to do with myself now. Maybe try and become a woman I guess. I'm so ashamed.
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    Describe your ideal woman and relationship dynamic/arrangement

    I've been told recently by family, recent ex, and good friend that I'm too picky and look for a reason to dump someone. I call it screening and not settling. But maybe I'm wrong. My ideal situation is a physically active woman who doesn't depend on a man. She's very affectionate. She accepts me...
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    Dudes who get dumped for balding

    As I entered my 30s, I became aware of how annoying and prevalent male pattern balding is. My hairline had a brief receding period in my early 20s and stopped. I remember being teased by my peers as if they were permanently immune to balding. By 30, a few of them had some serious balding, one...
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    I give up on women

    Can't make it more than 90 days without having to dump them. Is it me? Maybe I'm just not built to deal with relationship problems without shutting down? Been seeing a few people for a couple months. One asks to be exclusive last saturday. I said yes. Then told her I had a week long...
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    Women faking orgasms...why

    I put her on the back burner because she was really pushy on getting me to talk about my exes. But she promised a good dinner last night. She asks me to stay the night. I really wasn't in the mood for sex. Did squats after work, sat in meetings all day, sat in traffic. But I stayed and actually...
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    Women who get plastic surgery

    I've seen someone 3 times now. In her room, on the 3rd night, she starts telling me she wants a facelift because she's scared of getting old. She's 33 and looks pretty good. Pretty face, at most 15lbs overweight but carries most of it in her a$$. Then she asks if I'm ok with the scar from her...
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    When you're called "a nice guy"

    This is a first for me. Went out with this chick two nights ago. I didn't text or call after the date. She's super serious about finding a husband but one that she has chemistry with. So I'm thinking if this is someone I could see myself with long term so as to not waste her time. She texts me...
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    Fat Denial

    http://www.womansday.com/relationships/sex-tips/a967/8-reasons-he-doesnt-want-to-have-sex-91131/ In reality, the number one reason is probably because you're fat. But it's convenient to list any other reason so you don't have to do anything about it and think about it, isn't it?
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    Fat Excuses

    It's disgusting how many fat women are rolling around. I really think it's causing an impotency pandemic among men. Why can't women get it through their fat skulls that men just aren't sexually aroused by fat women? I am constantly hearing the complaints that they are worth the effort but men...
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    What would you do?

    So I have a new job that has dealt me a huge learning curve. I basically forgot about sex for about a month. I woke up incredibly horny on Sunday and opened up a pof account again. I instantly chat up this young hot looking blonde who was really sweet and pretty young. Lots of photos of her in a...
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