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    Should I completely cut this "mutual" friend out of my life?

    Last Friday, we were having a small get-together and my GF's flat. There was drinking involved. My GF, this guy and some other friends had had a picnic beforehand, and I joined them later (I was at work). Anyway, my GF mentioned to me that this guy had slapped her on the arse. I asked if she...
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    Guys, I think I've been blessed.

    Context: GF of 6 months. She sent me a message maybe an hour after she had called me for a chat. In the message she said that she couldn't help her insecurities and that she thinks I'm too good looking to be true and that she's scared sometimes. She means the world to me. I feel so damn...
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    First time I've ever been genuinely surprised by a girl.

    I've never had a girl cook me meals and pack me lunch, neither have I had a girl surprise me with a river cruise with sunset and drinks, and then a meal at a wine bar. It's almost shocking that this is happening. I'm making sure I don't get complacent, though. It's easy to get complacent...
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    Being with someone with a higher sex drive is the best.

    My own sex drive is pretty high, but having a GF whose sex drive is slightly higher than mine is just great. She initiates 80% of the sex. I'll tease her a lot to the point where she's like "Please take me..." and screaming "Harder, faster, etc..." (Not too loud though because she has two...
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    Is it common for girls to slap their BF's ass in public/private?

    Don't get me wrong, I love it when she does it. It's playfully and flirty. I do it back to her from time to time, and she loves when I jiggle her behind in private. It usually happens when I tease her, which is often.
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    Do I get involved or not?

    Big part of me doesn't, because it'll make things worse, but this guy is a ****ing nut case and God knows what he's capable of. He's verbally threatened my girl that he'll send his friends to beat her up as she leaves the flat. Most likely empty threats, but they've been flatmates for a...
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    This is what happens when a woman is 100% in her feminine.

    I'm back again with an update because I really appreciate the vast majority of the feedback I get from some of you. GF came over to mine last night because she wanted to keep my company at work. She baked me a delicious cake. She brought me my favourite chocolates. She ordered my dinner. I...
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    So, she took the initiative and asked me out?

    Not entirely used to this. She sent me a message a couple days ago saying how "I really enjoyed the other night at the restaurant it was really cool...and cute. I want to take you to this other restaurant next time". I feel like her interest is going up a bit. We're seeing eachother this...
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    Work-related vent.

    I'm not looking for sympathy, it's just that I've had a rough couple of days at work and need to get it off my chest. Any advice is welcome though. Sorry it's long and thanks for taking the time to read. I work for a large social media company, primarily from home until they decide to bring us...
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    Has being bald changed your game?

    I started losing my hair young - around 18 is when I started to notice. I was lucky not to go down the bald patch route, and by the time my temples were getting real thin (23-24) I shaved down to 0,5mm. Although I've never been too good with women, I've noticed that I get more attention now...
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    Is this too much too soon?

    Been on 2 great dates with her so far. Two dates that lasted from 8pm to 5pm the next day. I usually keep it to one date a week. I left 3 days go after the end of the second date. I was literally about to send her a message and she sent me "Wanna go bowling again before I go to France for...
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    Is my flatmate's friend trying to... seduce me?

    I could be reading too much into this, but I have a feeling she might be. So I went to my flatmate's room to ask for something. Her friend was lying on her bed with her legs up, showing her bum. Now I'd think she'd feel a bit uneasy or something, but she didn't move. Whenever we made...
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    My cue to ask her out?

    This might be pretty obvious... Met a girl a couple nights ago through some work colleagues of mine. Pretty damn cute. Didn't do much talking at the start, but we eventually played darts together and she gave me the rest of her sandwich. Accidentally threw a dart at her finger. Sent her a...
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    I feel like the luckiest man alive right now. Should I be worried?

    I've honestly has the best 3 weeks with the Brazilian woman I have been dating. Last Thursday she invited me round to hers and she made me dinner. The next day she made me breakfast. Today she sent me a video of her singing one of all time favourite songs. We have a date set up for this...
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    So, did she just reject me?

    For our second date I asked her when she was free next week to go for dinner, and she asked if we could do it the following week because she went away and has spent the last of her money. She then sent me “We can soft hangout”, but I have no idea what she means by that. Any ideas? English...
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    Are women usually this forward on first dates?

    Our first date was last Saturday, and it couldn’t have gone any better. We went to an arcade, played some games, grabbed some drinks, ate a cake, played some more, drunk some more. At one point, I teased her for going to the loo so often, and when she came back she was “I think you should...
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    Girl who had been cheating on her boyfriend with me wants to "talk about how things are"?

    I've been forced to create a new thread about this since the post I mentioned this has been hijacked by certain users. Anyway, I cut contact with her a few weeks ago. No texting , no nothing. A couple nights ago, I get a message from her asking if I was really leaving the country. I've...
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    Ghosted after first date?

    So I got a text out of the blue last week from a girl I had flirted with at this party 3 weeks ago. After 2-3 exchanges I set a date and we went out last Wednesday. Thought it went quite well, good laugh, good conversations, banter, etc... and then 30 mins when I got home I got a text from her...
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    I have a feeling she's going to cancel the date?

    So Tuesday I asked how her schedule would be this week. She told me, so I asked if she was up for a restaurant at 8pm. Stupidly, I forgot to mention the day, so she thought I was asking her out Tuesday. I replied "I mean Friday, sorry" and she replied "Ah yes that should be good". I don't...
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    Would you consider it ‘normal’ for a girl who has cheated on her boyfriend multiple times with same guy to now avoid him?

    Especially if they live in the same place and all the other flatmates know about the affair?
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